My bf of a year and six months cheated on me. Three weeks later I met this guy and decided to brake up with my bf. The other guy is great, but I still tlak to my ex everyday. He calls me everyday and asks for forgivenes saying that he doesn't want to live without me. I want to try out with the new guy but I still have feelings for my ex and quite honestly, I don't know if I could not talk to him at all. But I don't think I want to come back to him, but I still love him. What to do?
2006-10-06 15:16:46 · 9 answers · asked by maya 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The longer you are away from your ex the less you will want him back. Just remember once a cheater always a cheater and keep that in the back of your mind. Give the new guy a chance. Don't mess it up by talking to your ex all the time. Tell him to quit calling and I'm pretty sure you won't miss it if this new guy works out.
2006-10-06 15:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH you got yourself in a bind....this is one of those decisions you need to let the heart make...not the brain....if your ex cheated on you after that period of time dont get back with him...whats to say he wont do it again? As for this other guy give him a chance just dont rush into anything....its good to see what other guys are out there so you get to know the "type" you really like....and feel compatiable with...GOOD LUCK
2006-10-06 22:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by hocsoc779 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you i would go out with the new guy. my x girlfriend cheated on me and i broke up with her. we went out for 4 months. and she still calls me and tells me she's sorry and wants to get back to geather but i say hell no. so don't go out with the x because once they cheat they'll probily do it again. the chances of the doing it again is 8 out of 10. give the new guy a shot. and if you don't want to talk to the x then don't.
2006-10-06 22:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him forgiveness but say you want to remain friends that way he still is with you and you with him but in a different way tell him what he did was low and it will take time for you to fully trust him again in the meantime you can work on the new guy
2006-10-06 22:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy cheated on you then.............
ready??.....
------He's just not that into you!-------
Sounds like he has a bad case of the "want what you can't have" with calling you everyday so I would go along with this new guy..he might treat you the way you SHOULD be treated! good luck!
2006-10-06 22:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by krazykair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ho come on you love him go back to him he told you he is sorry so go for it if you see hte
other one man i don't know it will mess it all up how dos that go better to want then to get the other may just use you if you have a good one now why give him up good luck to you
2006-10-06 22:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd listen 2 my heart but i would also try the new guy ur x cheated on u but its up 2 u listen 2 ur heart
2006-10-06 22:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by short stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm smiling with my mouth, my eyes, AND my heart today. It's Friday, I have a 3-day weekend, and your question gives me an opportunity to share the biggest reason I'm smiling with the rest of the world...
My boyfriend told me he loves me for the first time last night! (:
It's not exactly shouting it from rooftops, but here goes - I LOVE YOU TOO, BRIAN!!
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2006-10-06 22:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay wit da new guy that ur with and leave ur ex alone cause its gonna 2 cause some problems wit u and ur new man.
2006-10-06 22:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋