I have no sex drive at all I love my husband very much but I'm never in the mood for sex I avoid it as much as possible anyone have any idea what would be causing this
2006-10-06 15:12:15 · 15 answers · asked by Toni M 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
My Dr. said that stress greatly effects sex drive. And I guess I have to agree with her. A lot of people blame birth control pills, but I noticed the more kids that came along, the less my sex drive. I became more focused on being a good mom, then a good wife. And at night, all I want to do is sleep! All I know is that with time and patience, it will return. Just remind him that you love him. Tell him that it has nothing to do with him, that give you some time to get through this, and you will make it worth his while! This is so hard for a lot of men to understand....cause sex is always on their brains!!
2006-10-06 15:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by frigidx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u probably avoid it because you are not satisfied. otherwise, you would like it! i know we all go thru bad days but it souldnt happen often. sex is one of our basic physiological needs. maybe he needs to stimulate you more and not be in a such a rush to jump on. if this is not your case, say because he is very romantic, then you need to trick your mind into it, motivate your mind, visual aids are helpful. get in the mood before someone else gets in the mood with him.
2006-10-06 15:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by LIL' DEVIL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be side effects to some medications, hormonal changes, or you're simply over-stressed. Best to see a doctor.
2006-10-06 15:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get your hormones checked, see if it's hormonal, which it probably is, maybe that mixed with stress. Sometimes we need reprogramming, some classes I have heard of actually teach individuals how to make themselves have an orgasms. You should look into natural herbs and remedies.
can go to www.wedmd.com also
2006-10-06 15:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by oldtimegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has ur husband changed a lot,like hair-cleaner or dirtyer,,his cloths does he pay attention 2 u..how long have u been 2 gether,,maybe a special un called for honey moon is in need ,,,good luck...maybe u 2 have just grown apart if so good luck girl
2006-10-06 15:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by paperrosie77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see your family doctor, there may be a medical cause.
2006-10-06 15:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by DadOnline 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on any medications? Some side effects of medications will cause that.
2006-10-06 15:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by barbi316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're going to have to talk to your doctor. Could be hormonal, or stress.
2006-10-06 15:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for the equivalent of Viagra , i forgot the name for women
2006-10-06 15:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by cutlus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor, could be hormonal
2006-10-06 15:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋