I am fat and i like this kid, hes nice to me but i want him to like me what do i do?

Question

please help me i want to no what to do!!!

and im only a teen no younger than 14

Answer 1

hi, I think the most important thing you can do is to be happy with who you are. Your physical appearance is just one part of who you are. The culture we live in just makes it look like physical beauty is the only one that matters. That is not true. Have you considered making a list of character traits about yourself that are positive. I did this myself, and these are a few that I came up with about myself so you can see what I'm talking about -
CREATIVITY,DEPENDABILITY,DETERMINATION ,DILIGENCE,ENDURANCE,ENTHUSIASM,FAITH,FLEXIBLE,FORGIVENESS,GENEROUS,GRATEFULNESS,HONESTY,HUMBLE,INITIATIVE,JOYFUL ,LOYALTY,OBEDIENT,PURITY
,RESPONSIBLE,SINCERE,TOLERANCE
,TRUTHFUL
in general I am a person of great faith and courage. That's nothing about what I look like or what I DO. You are going to have better luck with other people liking you if YOU like YOU. You can't though get everyone to like you. And it also really helps if you take an interest in others, they aren't going to get as interested in you if you are trying to get them interested in you as you will by taking an interest in THEM. It took me a long time to learn this simple truth. I am 44. Good for you to learn this now. This will not work with every guy, some guys are just into appearances, and a lot of that is their own insecurities, that they have to have a beautiful person just to make them feel ok about themselves. But usually the ones who can attract beautiful people are the ones who LIKE THEMSELVES... There are also many other factors out of your control. Like if this person is not the one you are supposed to be with, then it might not work. And that is painful. I had lots of relationships that didn't work, but that was because they weren't the one, when I met the person I was supposed to meet it worked out fine, and sometimes that is a hard thing. It can take time. I hope I helped you. Beauty is an inner quality. My wife was the loveliest person I ever me (she died) but she didn't look like a supermodel. that doesn't matter all that much. She didn't have to - she knew herself she was a treasure...

Answer 2

Guys- no. If your overweight or simply moderately better, definite. but when your professional fats then no. women- Usually. As lengthy as your dressing correctly, now not displaying off your fats rolls/muffin most sensible/ and many others. And so long as your truthfully fairly beautiful you'll be able to pull if off. It simply is determined by the man or woman, how they get dressed/what they are trying to tug off, and what they seem like. I imply so much thin men and women are not able to pull off scene both. You simply must have THAT seem. But in the event you love it,there shouldnt be a intent for you now not to take a look at it.

Answer 3

Do not worry about what you look like on the outside, it is the inside that counts. Just be nice to him, and if he likes you, he will come around soon. If not, don't worry, I am sure you will meet a lot of nice guys that will like you just like you are. :-)


Uuumm Robin, can you not read beyond what's there? Obviously she is wondering if her size will affect whether or not he likes her or not. So yeah, it is part of her question.

Answer 4

What is fat?
are you 130 lbs, 300 lbs???

What you perceive as fat may not be fat at all.

Even if you are fat, does that mean that no one will like you?

Answer 5

Eat healthy and get a little exercise. Don't over-do it and see your doctor before starting any programs.

Answer 6

what does being fat have to do with anything, is it part of the question