ok i am 14 and if you think its too early for me to date its not and i dont have a date anyway... allot of girls like me but i had NO experience with them so yea its not good i need to know how to act around girl just be quiet and like a cool guy or be like you dont care .... does the girl like when you look at you sometimes or when you stare at her... do they like when you keep yourself a secret or tell her everything about you what make girl laugh do girls like guys that are strong and trying to show off or guys that are strong and masculare but keep it quiet yea and how to kiss a girl and... man nvm just answer those and everything else you can tell me because its to many answers just basicly I DONT KNOW ANYTHING and at my age i should :( o yea one more thing i like a girl but she has a bf and i think she might like me a little so if she would see me with another girl would i loose all my chances with being with her or she will get jelous and will like me
2006-10-06 15:06:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-06 15:51:45 · update #1
girls like it when you look at her and then as soon as she looks at you you look away and DO NOT stare at her, if you are all alone and nobody is talking it would be wierd so that is when you would need to talk don't talk to her if her other friends are around and they are talking to her, girls like it when guys are muscular but you keep it quiet, girls ahte it when you annoy them and if you do annoy them they will start to tink you are immature and try to stay away from you, when you go on a date you should probably go to the movies and you pay for everything, take it slow for the first 10 min. of the movie and then put your hand on her knee and then keep moving you hand up, eventualy lean over to kiss her cheek if she looks at you and smiles then give her a french kiss and start makeing out thingsshould go good from ther, if she does'nt smile than don't kiss her again and start takeing it slower, if the girl that you think likes you sees you with another girl she will think you don't like her and she will try to forget about you... But do what you want, yea im a 14 year old girl so I know these things.
2006-10-06 15:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have no experience with girls when you are 14. These things take time, and once you've dated a few, everything will be fine, I'm sure.
Girls are all different and like different things, so there's no point tryng to please them all. Just be yourself (I mean, yourself on a good day!), and be friendly and sincere, and that is a good start. If you feel shy or awkward, it's probably best not to talk too much at first; be a good listener instead. If you run out of conversation, ask her questions: most girls like to talk about themselves.
Kissing isn't that difficult once you get going - keep your mouth soft and slightly open, and don't slobber.
It's okay to look at girls admiringly (it makes them feel good), but probably staring at her intensely for an entire class isn't on. If you really gawk at a girl, just do it for a few seconds.
If the girl you like has a bf already, just date other girls you are interested in - it's good practice.
It sounds like you are quite popular with girls already, so you just need to relax and get some experience. Don't forget - the girls your age don't have much experience either!
2006-10-06 15:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God ur right I hate when people say I'm to young to date I'm 13 name's mackenzie I live in pa. oh I don't know everything about guys either, but everything u asked me to answer yea well it all depends, I love four wheelers and animals and hate trying clothes on. It doesn't bother me to just hang with my friends in the mall and go to clairs. I could really care less if I broke a nail. However some girls at my school would never be caught dead driving a four wheeler and if they brake a nail, MAN U BETTER HAVE EAR PLUGS LOL! Anyway it all depends on what kind of girl it is. We all have different tastes. Well good luck. You sound like an interesting guy so if u want u can e-mail me macluvzlabs@yahoo.com ok I go on aim sometimes to my screen name is huntergirl555 but I don't go on aim that often cause I can only go on at my dads. well if u do e-mail me make sure u tell me that ur the kid from yahoo answers that wanted to know about girls ok well good luck, oh and don't use other girls to make the one u like jealous, 1 she might back off because she thinks u have a gf and won't ask u out or 2 I don't want to upset u but yea that other girl u date might not look as good as the one u like now but if u use her to get the one u like and she gets hotter in the future ur probably screwed (sorry for the language) cause she ain't gonna want to go out with the guy that used her. Hope u could follow that. Well you sound interesting, some of my best friends r guys, so maybe u could be another friend I could talk to when the other ones r busy, e-mail me ok! LOL bye!
2006-10-06 15:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by macluvzlabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that she is feeling insecure as u have harm her earlier than and wonder whether u will do that once more. U will have got to be sincere and open along with her and get her to speak her emotions to u. Trust should be constructed again into the connection because it sounds find it irresistible was once misplaced awhile in the past. She definitely loves u or else she could now not supply u a moment risk. Do u suppose u have a long run along with her? If u do, inform her that and it would present her the safeguard she demands. It happended to a buddy of mine too and he or she informed him that this time they have been going to get married or else she could now not take him again :P! Good Luck and recollect endurance, perserverance and conversation is the important thing : )!
2016-08-29 06:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To confirm that she likes you, she will:
1.Laugh when you say something
2.Her face turns red when you talk to her
3.She looks nervous when you are standing nearby her
4.She loves to play with her hair
5.She didn't tell you that she has bf but others she did
6.She confessed her feeling in you but then she said 'just
kidding'!!
7.She always offer something to you (eraser, pen or etc.)
8.She tried to beauty herself
9.She likes to borrow you personal things
10.She likes your dressed
11.She like to touch you when you talking with her
12.She try to know ur' secret if you have girlfrenz' when you
talking with her
13.She likes your name
14.She loves to do 'eye-contact' with you
15.She stared at you with love in her eyes(euuuurrggghhh!!)
If you get the positive answers from her signal, then it is the time for you to take charge. But don't get over or you will look lot like desperado. You also should give her +ve answers to confirm her that you only love her. But not too much or she will feel corny!!
You should be yourself, b'coz ur true soulmate is someone that love everything about yourself!! No fakes!!
2006-10-06 15:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Maddie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I think I can help you with this one.
There are general rules, but they won't work with every girl.
1. Girls don't like to be objectified. That means don't stare at their t*ts or a$s, and don't look at them like a hungry wolf that wants to eat them for lunch.
2. Keep the conversation going. If you just stand there and say nothing you will look like a moron.
3. Don't do nervous things like figiting, stammering, or nervous laughter with snorting. But do smile alot. Look like you are happy, and are not desperate to get laid.
Those are the 3 main rules. There are thousands of other things you will learn along the way, but these will get you started. Good luck and happy hunting.
2006-10-06 15:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every Girl is Diffrent Honey but one thing we all have in common is we want the truth if this girl you like breaks up with her bf and you ask her out tell her honestly you have no clue what to do she'll more then likely think it's cute and help you out cutest thing in a guy is a guy who addmits he needs help good luck ;)
2006-10-06 15:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for a 14 year old girl i'm not really sure b/c i'm 16 but for me i think it's cute when i catch a guy looking at me...not a creepy guy who stares..ew...i think a mysterious guy is so cute....it keeps a girl guessing but don't be a hermit..open yourself up to her slowly as you get to know her....making a girl laugh is the best thing you can do...guys who can make me laugh basically are in...lol...and yea knowing how to kiss a girl is good...don't be one of those guys who is a showoff and thinks he's the ****...b/c thats a turnoff and makes me think he's trying to hard...if you like a girl then get to know her...find out what she likes and respnd to them..like if you find out her fav flowers bring her a bouquet of them...it shows that you care about getting to know her and it's sweet....just be yourself and i'm sure you'll find a girl soon..good luck
2006-10-06 15:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by M E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her catch you looking at her, then look away, look back and smile, if shes still looking.don't stare too much it might creep her out. try subtle hints to tell her that you like her, don't go aroundwith another girl, if she likes you and she sees you with another girl, she'll get jealous and maybe think you don't like her. also don't let the bf find out you are trying to get with his girl or you could end up with a black eye! ask her about herself, don't just talk about you, she might start thinking you're conceited (stuck up). remember her birthdays, get her a card. remember things she tells you, it shows you are paying attention. be nice. don't seem too desperate though. any other question just im me or email. chloe.
2006-10-06 15:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by nglfrmhvn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's cliched, but just be yourself. Pretending to be someone you're not, acting cool, and trying to be aloof is just a major turn-off. I know that me and most of my female friends are far more attracted to men who are genuine!
2006-10-06 15:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋