I have been seeing this guy for a few months. Every time we get ready to have sex, he holds back. He says he refuses to pressure or make anybody do anything. We aren't boyfriend and girlfriend and I'm pretty sure he is getting it elswhere. Do guys seriously consider a girl their girlfriend if they aren't having sex with her? Will a girl remain in the "friend" status until she agrees to have sex? Why or why not
2006-10-06 14:59:10 · 9 answers · asked by patience_bronx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he really likes you. He is letting you know that he has a girlfriend but he doesn't want to seem like he is having you on the side when he committed to this other person. You need some space if you are going to continue to embarrass yourself. If you have sex with him you might start to develop feelings. These feelings can lead to heart break when he is committed to someone else.
2006-10-06 15:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime a guy says he doesn't want to have sex with a willing female, either he's gay, or he's got another girl. Why would he feel like he's pressuring you if you're initiating? If you aren't bf and gf, why are you having sex? Girls remain "allies" until they cross the sexual line into "friends-with-benefits."
2006-10-06 15:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both see your relationship differently. Guys have
girl friends (NO sex) and Girlfriends(Sex) The sex does change the relationship.
2006-10-06 15:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by big dawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is cheating on his girlfriend. Yeah, I know he's not having sex with you - but emotionally he's cheating on her. If you still want to in his life, back off, stop putting yourself in a position to have sex with him until he free of all other obligations - but stay just friends.
2006-10-06 15:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the beginning, this would be a dumb question...until you let us know what you carry to the table in the 1st place, or what you 2 have been doing(I mean as properly screwing!) for the final ten months, we'd have not any theory why the two of you have been dropping interest. in the grand scheme of issues, human beings generally lose some exhilaration as a results of habitual; so, in case you p.c. to maintain him, artwork on your changing your attitude to issues. no person likes boredom...
2016-12-26 11:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by osuch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy is going to turn down sex. He might really like you though, and not want you tho think that sex is the only reason he is with you.
2006-10-06 15:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Michael R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can bet he is getting it elsewhere,for a guy to turn down a willing girl that he has been seeing for a few months,just don't sound right.
2006-10-06 15:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not normal,but when me and my wife started dating it took about 2 months before we did anything. we both come out a bad re-lat.,and didnt want to rush anything. To anwser your ? get rid of him.
2006-10-06 15:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by bigdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk about him but sex is no judge in my eyes to weather or not a girl is considered gf or just a friend.
2006-10-06 15:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by rak15tango 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋