IM ABOUT TO DIE if i dont get help please?

Question

HELP ME!! i wana ask him out... HOW?
and their is a dance comeing up so ya
ok so i really like this guy and he flirts with me and i flirt with him. i am in seventh grade he is in 8th i wana ask him out btu if i do i am afraid that he wont want to be friends so what whould i do

cause like i really like him and if your gonna tell me im to young then go to hell cuae its not like im haveing sex. and like he is really nice im in love kinda but like how should i hint to him that i wana go out?
and i think he can be kinda imature cause like sometimes his was of flirting is like calling naems. i know this is difficult to answer but please!!! i realllly like him!

but i dont reall want to ask him unless you can give me a good reaso to like i want to know hints i could give him long and discriptive pease

IM ABOUT TO DIE if i dont get help please?
HELP ME!! i wana ask him out... HOW?
and their is a dance comeing up so ya
ok so i really like this guy and he flirts with me and i flirt with him. i am in 13 he is in 14 i wana ask him out btu if i do i am afraid that he wont want to be friends so what whould i do

cause like i really like him and if your gonna tell me im to young then go to hell cuae its not like im haveing sex. and like he is really nice im in love kinda but like how should i hint to him that i wana go out?
and i think he can be kinda imature cause like sometimes his was of flirting is like calling naems. i know this is difficult to answer but please!!! i realllly like him!

but i dont reall want to ask him unless you can give me a good reaso to like i want to know hints i could give him long and discriptive pease

oh ya and alot of other people my grade and age go out so stop answering like do you have a furby to play with please i really need help

Answer 1

Ok, first of all, you are never to young to have feelings for somebody. Anyways, these are the things that you should look for to tell if this guy does like you:

He calls you names
He touches you
He teases you
He stares at you
There are awkward moments when you are with him


These are all signs that he probably does have some feelings for him. And no matter what, one of you has to make the first move, and if it isn't going to be him, then it's going to have to be you. So do it, that's all there is to it. Just ask him if he does do these things. If he does have any feelings for you, he will not say no to you. I promise. Love takes courage, and if you don't have any, then you can say goodbye to love.

GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 2

Just start talking to him about the dance and ask him if he is going and whom he is going with you know let the conversation go along slowly then tell him you are thinking of going too and maybe you can go together so you can have someone to talk to. Now if you go on these terms you cant really get mad if he flirts with other girls cause you're only "riding together" but if he likes you like you think he does... then he will want to be around you the whole time. Know that boys at his age can be very fickle. They dont like to get tease by their buddies so he may dis you just to look tough and stuff. Ths age is very hard to have a relationship you are both growing and testing and discovering so many new things, Go to the dance look good dance a lot laugh a lot with your friends. HAVE A BLAST. :)

Answer 3

Why are middle schoolers asking each other to dances? this isnt prom. Its a middle school dance. Its no big deal. Just walk in, dance a couple of times with him, and it will be all good. But make sure you are a good dancer.

Im gonna have to agree with many people here. You are too young. What do you consider a date. Your mom drops you off at the movies, you meet up with your "boyfriend" at the movie entrance, you both buy your own food and ticket, you sit down, you dont talk, you walk out of the theater, the boy is rapidly trying to get a converstation started, your mom arrives and he waves goodbye? That is not a date. That is 3 hours of your life wasted.

Answer 4

You want some mature advice? Well here you go...Stop being so chicken **** and ask the poor boy out. Trust you will not want him as a friend after a while if you like him and he ignores you. Ask him out, outside of school or around people you know. Simple stuff too, like a movie(comedy is safe but he will perfer action movies more) horror flick might send the wrong signal or in your case the right signal too soon. what ever you do just make it an activity where the main focus is not on talking.
Now girl go get him and if he rejects you...**** em just not literally.

Answer 5

Let's say say You're Sally, and he's Johnny. By the way.. homecomming dance..? ok.
Sally: "Hi Johnny, how's it going with you lately?"
Johnny: "Hi, it's ok, and you?"
Sally: "good good, normal shi*t you know.."
*you want to say this somewhere that's only 2 of you there.
Sally: "Hey, that's a nice shirt you got there!, I like it!"
Johnny: he gonna act like a dumb as*s cuz he knows he likes it.
Johnny: "thanks hahah.."
Sally: "hey listen.. um.. Are you busy on (let's just say the dance is on Saturday) Saturday?
Johnny: most likely this guy gonna ask you why... and he'd say no he's not busy, common sense.. guys at this stage of life have nothing to do, don't worry.
Johnny: "umm.. I don't thinnnkkkkk sooo, Why?"
Sally: "Have you heard about the dance comming up?"
Johnny: Gonna prettend like he doesn't know about it... but ofcourse he knows..
JOhnny: "umm ya i kinda heard it, why?, are you going?"
Sally: "I would go if you're not taken yet, wink wink" This is a form of asking him INDIRECTLY, you see it's not a question, but it kinda make him to decide you see?
And from there just see how he answers it, if he says ya he's available or not taken yet, then simply ask him quick and simple like this "So you wanna go with me?" simple you see. It's all depends on how he answers the previous question. If he says no he's busy, pshh forget it you know. Good luck and have fun. :)

Answer 6

The best way to spark up a conversation about going to that dance is by asking him if he is taking anyone. From there say your no going with anyone or something like that. Use your own discretion from there.

Answer 7

WELL if your asking for advice then you should listern not say " go to hell " if you dont like the answer,
SO, if you like this guy & you KNOW he likes you, when your talking to him just ask - " are you going to the dance " if he says yes just say " hey i am going to i may just let you dance with me " BUT if he says he is not going then just say " well you can come with me if you want to " then see what he says, if he agrees then you have got your man,

Answer 8

Calm down. You're going nuts over this. Regain your composure and act a little bit mature and just go over and ask him in a sincere way and see what he says.

Answer 9

Make him a card asking him out and give it too him if he is flirting with you he likes you. Go for it.

Answer 10

okay its natural to be afraid of rejection because even if you dont end up going out you still want to be friends

so you should hint at asking him out like say something like
"oh my friend (whoever make up a name) wants to ask this kid out but she is afraid that if he says no they wont be able to be friends anymore and she keeps bringing it up to me and it stresses me out! what should i tell her"

and if you tell him that he will probably think you are hinting about asking him out but techically you are talking about your friend ( that u will make up)

and if you dont feel comfortable doing that why dont you get one of your friends to talk to him and see if he likes you

or why dont you just walk up to him and ask him out because if you like him its not like you will be satisfied just being friends and you dont want to watse all your time obsessing over him when some other guy might like you and u could go out with him

well yeah hope this all helps you in some way good luck =)