Most people, in childhood, want chocolate most of the time. At least for me, I thought life without chocolate will be intolerable. I am pretty certain there are others who thought likewise in their childhood.
Now in adulthood, I want sex most of the time. I think life without sex would be intolerable. However, after the acutal act, I usually realize that sex is not as great as fantasized. Nonetheless, the want returns in about few days.
Craving for chocolate disspears after certain stage (well, maybe not totally). I suspect sexual desire is kind of like that. There are some who think heaven will be so boring because there will be no sexual acts going on in heaven.
Do you think sexual urge ought to be controlled and regarded wit prudence?
2006-10-06 14:47:34 · 12 answers · asked by big Enderon 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I'd have to say by faith, sex has been divinely designed to be practiced within marriage. If this divine bond is broken, more than likely we pay price sometimes unaware.
2006-10-06 15:08:04 · update #1
Sex was pretty important to me too. But then my wife gained 120 pounds. I haven't had sex in... 4 or 5 years??? I don't even know for sure.
2006-10-06 14:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sexual intimacy is about intimacy, not about sex. Like chocolate, sex is great when tempered with moderation and discipline. It's a desire. And, within reason, indulging in that desire in a healthy way makes life much much more enjoyable.
Intimacy however, is not a desire. It's a need. It's not like eating chocolate. It's like eating, period. You might go some time without it but you won't live long without it. You might be physically alive, but you will be dead inside....in all the ways that matter.
This is why you should never seperate sex from intimacy.
2006-10-06 15:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not feel your homosexual, I feel you have got been raised in a household that displaying ones affections is NOT all that main. Nothing flawed with that. The 14 yr historical that you simply kissed won't were a well kisser so do not base all of your kissing schooling on him. What you ought to do is provide your self permission to love and love men and women. You were conditioned to feel a targeted manner and now you ought to query a few of the ones beliefs. Your on the age in which you ought to allow pass of historical beliefs and cause plenty of why you suppose such as you do at the reality you have got been programed to feel a targeted manner. Get out and feature a laugh. Try a couple of want kisses and you'll be able to uncover out that you simply rather do love it. Your feelings were stored in a field and now its time to open that field and enable a few of them to develop. If you do not enjoy a couple of matters how can you ever recognize if you happen to like them or now not?
2016-08-29 06:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the reason God gave Adam ,Eve ! Who had the first sexual thought, ? , God did. Sex within the marriage, is perfectly fine ,and i might add encouraged by God! Yet i believe their is a time and place for everything. self control is a good trait to have.
When we all get to Heaven there will be no desire for any earthly things. only to serve and praise the Lord.
2006-10-06 15:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex drives vary from person to person and medical problems also are a factor that can affect sex drives. There are many ways to be intimacy without intercourse. Great sex (intercourse)is just a bonus when you are with your mate! It is just too bad that men and women dont reach their sexual peak at the same time
2006-10-06 15:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's important, for example, in a committed loving relationship...because of some health issues that my husband had, we had not sex for a few months...I really missed that connection, but now those health issues have resolved & we are back in the groove, so to speak, I can tell that we are closer...not that we weren't close then or that we didn't love each other, it's just the word that you used..."intimacy".
2006-10-06 15:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by suzeq19642003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a long-time partner that you trust, sex is an ever-changing & evolving adventure that gets better all the time!
I can hardly wait for tomorrow.........
2006-10-06 14:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex = chocolate. You are selling short.
2006-10-06 14:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by Paul K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its important. u do have 2 control
2006-10-06 14:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by ♥will♥skate♥4♥life♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab some baby oil and a penthouse mag
2006-10-06 14:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by bennycigar77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋