Ok well my boyfriend and I had been going out for over 3 months. 2 weeks ago I broke up with him, and now he is going out with my best friend and it had only been a week when they started going out. I am really upset at the both of them. I don't still like him but I can't seem to stop thinking about the 2 of them and it makes me upset then sad. Why am I feeling this way and what am I feeling?? Am I really over him?
2006-10-06 14:10:25 · 7 answers · asked by babygirl_2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could be over him. The fact that you do not feel good about them two is a natural feeling. There's a rule in life, which is sometimes overlooked especially if you are a beginner at dating: DO NOT GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS CRUSH/EX.
I kind of broken this rule, but it was partly payback for the same offense done to me by the same person.
The fact that she is going out with him makes you feel bad because you second guess your decision. You have your friend, whom you respect, and the fact that she goes out with him means that she's finding value in him. Now if someone whom you respect found value in someone whom you don't, makes you doubt your original decision to dump him.
The sad part is that life is not this simple. Someones value does come to light in one relationship and it doesn't in another's. Therefore they might have something good, which might not have happened with you and that guy. You might get that with another guy, but not with your ex.
Advice: Just have self confidence and know that you decided right. The guy might be perfect for your friend.
Good luck.
2006-10-06 14:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have reason to be feeling this way.
first of all, that is not your best friend. a best friend would not go out with any of your ex's. especially that soon! ditch her asap.
you are feeling this way because you may not be completely over him, which is understandable, and you also feel betrayed by your so-called "best friend".
this is a tough situation and you don't need either of them in your life if they did that to you.
try not to worry so much about it, i know its hard, but you'll get over it soon, i promise.
good luck and keep your head up :]
2006-10-06 21:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are human, just because you dont want him doesnt mean that you want anyone else to have him either. get over it go out and have some fun with some friends, why care what he does
2006-10-06 21:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by c504play 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just don't like seeing him with your friend. This is not to nice of either of them to hook up so soon. But you broke up with him Try not to let it bother you.
2006-10-06 21:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The green eyed bug has reared it's ugly head ...It's called jealousy ... Him being with your best friend is hurting you ..Time heals all wounds ..Take care
2006-10-06 21:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably feel betrayed by both your best friend and your ex-boyfriend.....start looking for a new best friend...
2006-10-06 21:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by lotusdell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH WHY DONT YOU GO OUT WITH HIS BEST FRIEND OR ONE OF HIS FRIEND OR AN ENEMY OF HIS IF YOU CANT GET A REBOUND GUY CHOW
2006-10-06 21:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by chosen 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋