How do I deal with this?

Question

I have a cousin who is really skinny, and I am not that skinny. I feel like I don't fit in around her and her friends excpesially when she judges people because I don't think it is right to judge people because of their size. I don't know how to be myself and not care what she thinks, what should I do?

Answer 1

What you really need to do is love yourself the way you are and accept it. Confidence is key. Don't worry about her accepting you- accept yourself the way you are or do something to change it. Not easy at all- I know but if you don't accept it you can't expect others to. You seem like a really sweet person and all you need it to adjust you attitude a bit and confidence will come. It took me years but I finally have the confidense to love and accept myself.

Answer 2

u know u better talk and discuss it with her and let her know in a nice way that u r not that so comfortable with her having that kind of attitude, just do it ina nice way,.. like if she saw someone oversized and blurt out some crazy and mean words to that person, just say hey stop it, with a laugh then after that u can just discuss it with her,..on ur own way coz i dont know what kind of atttude she have so only u can determine the way how to approach her with out offending her or making her feel that u are siding with those person that she is making fun with.. good luck

Answer 3

Tell her that you like who you are and you prefer for her to be back stabbing when you are not around she also needs to grow up and not be so judgemental no one is perfect no matter what the size you are

Answer 4

The whole world is judgemental. Dont hang around her if she is talking bad about you

Answer 5

Tell her how you feel. Maybe you need different friends