The neighbor girl was leaning back in my chair during an unexpected visit to my apartment yesterday evening, and ended up falling backwards... That one clumsy moment of hers is not the reason I don't return her feelings because I am clumsy myself--there are other reasons; nonetheless, after her mishap, I apologized profusely, asked if she was well, and such even though it was her own fault.
...but then she tried to kiss me when I was helping her back up. I was chewing gum at the time; so, I popped a bubble right in her face so that she could not kiss me. Was this the appropriate thing to do? I've had to pop gum in her face when she tried this before...it works only temporarily.
I saw her today, asked if she was okay, apologized again, and she said she was perfectly fine; I just don't want her to kiss me or such...
2006-10-06 13:50:31 · 14 answers · asked by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Oh yes i do remember the question about popping gum in the neighbor girls face. How strange an unexpected visit... didn't you say she was preoccupied with the furby, i would be a little nervous if i were you. Anyway i think popping the gum in her face was great but i'm sure you can only do it so many times. Just avoid her for a few days and i'm sure she'll give up on kissing you. She probably thought you liked her when you helped her up, yes i agree that is not normal and a bit weird because most people don't do that, anyway i'm sure if she didn't kiss you, then you are ok...for now, just keep a closer eye on her but not to close or to obvious because well knowing the way she acts she might take it as you liking her and watching and what not.
Next time this happens just run away and get ice and wait until she helps herself up, but hopefully you won't get anymore "surprise" visits, oh i'm nervous for you, because i still don't understand how the furby and her are getting along. well good luck if this situation ever happens to come up and be careful.: )
2006-10-06 15:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, and since she lives right in the same area as you, just stop answering your door when she knocks, and also, tell her flat out that your not interested, your gay, whatever you want, but tell her your not interested, at all, period. And that she is not getting the hint, so you hate to be blunt and hurt her but.... sometimes you just might have to take that approach. good luck. Geez, if I tried to kiss a dude and he blew a bubble in my face, I think I would not only get the hint, I would probably start to cry....:(
2006-10-06 14:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someday this will make a great anecdote for your kids etc and you can look back and laugh. Right now you should just be up front about your feelings (and lack of) for her. Don't be a jerk or anything, but the best thing you can do for you both is to be straight and tell it like it is.
2006-10-06 13:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Behhar B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in college? For the love of a few thing individuals, please proceed practise your prose and quit writing in textual content sort. i'd fairly allow you to understand this myself earlier your boss tells you. From what I understood of your question, a lady you aren't any further courting spent funds to visit you and presented you to work out her at her position, yet you refused. i visit maintain in mind that you do not favor her to imagine you'll sleep with her, yet you blew your risk through no longer explaining this to her on the phone even as she requested you to come back over. because you 2 aren't any further courting, there is not any longer some thing you may do now that would not make issues worse. Please do no longer deliver her mixed alerts about your intentions through attempting to persuade her that you want her to be your lady friend and at the same time saying you want to "stay in simple terms as friends". that isn't accomplish some thing. i don't understand what you recommend through "bunk my college" (third paragraph). so that you ignored your risk, extra perfect luck next time.
2016-12-04 08:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I knw wht u mean. In my uni i have a girl who is obessed with me, but i don like her in tht way. As frnds she is okay but then she asks 4 more. Actually I am looking for a good solution to the same problem in the answers for this question of urs...
2006-10-10 22:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You might want to actually tell her that you're not interested instead of popping gum in her face. That's just stupid.
2006-10-13 00:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her and when she trys to kiss you tell her that you ARE NOT interested and tell her not to try to kiss you if she doesn't want to get her feelings hurt.
2006-10-06 13:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say 'listen darling i know im irresistable and u want my buff body, but as if i would lower myself to have any sort of romantic relationship with someone like YOU'
that might work
2006-10-06 14:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are not interested in her, so she will stop making a nuisance and fool out of herself.
2006-10-06 14:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you apologise????
shoulda kicked her out for scufing up your floor and almost braking your chair
2006-10-06 14:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by jared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋