My Skinny dad is the same size as me and loans me his clothes all the time. He really knows fashion and I don't so I appreciate it greatly.
This makes my Chubby dad feel left out because I cannot fit into his clothes.
They are normally able to talk things out but they just have hissy fits over this issue.
How can I make Peace....so far I have failed.
2006-10-06 13:46:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is not really about the clothes.i think they are in a power struggle . Even though they usually can talk things out they cant resolve this, men are competitive by nature and they are competing for the best relationship with you this is their battle field,.you are the rope in a game of tug-of-war.
Good Luck
2006-10-07 03:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know what is causing the problem, it is up to you to fix it. Stop wearing your "skinny" dad's clothes, is a first option. Second option, find something to do with your "chubby" dad in which the two of you do something you both like. This way, he doesn't feel left out. Or, you can just let them handle it. They are adults and it's them who is fighting, you shouldn't drag yourself into it. They'll handle it, especially when it comes to something so trivial as clothing.
2006-10-06 13:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You son isn't a baby anymore. he's becoming into being an offended guy. Is there any way he can stay along with his bio father? He needs to be away out of your husband. He additionally needs to correctly known you will do besides the fact that is maximum suitable for him in those ultimate few years. you're first a mom and 2d a spouse. it truly is as much as you to guard your little ones whether it potential leaving a marriage. The boy's father would desire to be keen to supplement discipline in a sort way. Turning an offended sixteen year previous right into a relationship without regulations quantities to throwing him out. If this can be the case, it truly is larger you pass away your husband......or a minimum of separate for awhile. whether he is going lives along with his bio dad, you would be able to desire to continuously be there on your son whether he resides someplace else. manage get togethers, communicate often, and so on. truly what needs to be finished proper now's family counseling along with your son and you to start and then your husband. it is your final risk along with your son earlier he's lost. i seem back at your first few lines and desire not extra little ones along with your husband. He would not sound like a good functionality kind for a be certain and your little ones are being raised in a annoying homestead. think of of your daughter, what's see studying?
2016-10-02 00:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find something you can share with your Chubby dad. Maybe he can teach you how to talk to girls, or how to hunt and fish.
To get them to stop fighting, you can all watch tv together. Whenever I visit Uncle Karl and his good friend Jim, we all watch Sex and the City together. We all get along great.
2006-10-06 16:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by timm1776 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them to,to sit down an talk you don't like to see them this way.you are not happy like this,its hurting you.ask your chubby dad to find something youll to have in common.let him know that youll two don't mean notthing by that. an that you love him just as much as the next one.find something that youll to could to together an he wouldn't feel so left out.
2006-10-06 14:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should borrow your chubby dads shoes or something or go out and bond together so he won't feel so left out anymore.
2006-10-06 13:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by LilSo1287 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to start acting like dads and not kids.
How can someone have 2 dads
2006-10-06 13:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My two dads? Wasn't that a TV show in the eighties? I love that show. Good Luck!
2006-10-06 13:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off thats about one stupid ? but if ur so rich than u wouldnt be wearing ur dads clothes u are the one that has all the money right and why dont u look at what he is wearing take advise go buy ur own b-u-s-t-e-d
2006-10-06 14:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by scheminsgirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes the child has to be the bigger man/woman.
Ask each to give you $50, take them out for a HAPPY MEAL.
HOLLA BACK!
2006-10-06 13:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by xman77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋