people say that if you like a guy, and you know for sure they don't like you back, you should give up on them because they are many many other guys out there.
i did not realize this until recently and have wasted so much time wishing i could go out with guys who never liked me.
so now i know that i should give up early when i find out a boy doesn't like me and look for someone else to like.
but i am so sick because EVERYTIME i find a new guy to like, they never like me back. boys just don't like me.
i am a freshmen in high school and i've never had a boyfriend before and it's really embarrasing when my friends talk about boyfriends and i just sit there feeling horrible.
please give me some advice.
-gigi.
2006-10-06 13:45:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just made Level Four!
Who cares about your problems. Let's celebrate my success.
2006-10-06 13:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Teacher Man 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Freshman year SUCKS It is the most hardest year in high school don't feel bad at all are you dressing nice?? Does your hair look good?? Put some makeup on even, try some things. Boys can be judge mental and jerks so DONT GIVE UP!! I got dumped twice by the guy I'm with now within 4 months and now were are married but I just turned 18.Other than freshmans lean towards the junior guys *wink wink* but if you really like someone alot then don't give up and definitely never give up on love, in your case finding a boyfriend =)
2006-10-06 20:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by sogullablegurly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel so bad hon, I was the same as you. They just 'wanted to be friends'.
There were a few girls I liked but because of peer pressure, I never asked any of them out. I know that you're asking yourself "HOW can someone be pressured into NOT asking someone out"?
Example: there was this girl (Bonnie) who I liked, most of my friends thought that she was a dog (not pretty). But 'I' thought she was cute. I knew from their reactions that if I started going out with her, I would've been severely hounded. So I sat back and did nothing. Now THAT'S pathetic. Looking back on things, I should've asked her out and screw what the guys thought.
If you notice some guy checking you out, give him a friendly smile. And if this continues, talk to him. Make up an excuse, introduce yourself and ask him about a certain teacher or class. I'm sure you can come up with something. Don't talk to him every chance you get because you'll appear desperate. Find out what his strong suit is, ie... is he good at math. See if he can help you with a problem or two (wink wink). If he's halfway interested, he'll jump at the chance. Then take it from there.
One thing to remember, most of your friends who talk about their boyfriends are probably lying their @sses off about their relationship. They're exaggerating. Take everything they say with a grain of salt. Don't worry hon, you'll have guys knocking at your door soon enough. Be confident!!!
2006-10-06 21:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to get out there and meet more people!
Also, if your friends all have boyfriends, maybe you could ask some of them if they could help set you up for a double date! Your friends should know you well enough to be able to pick a decent match. While you may not find the right person for a boyfriend, you can use these dating experiences to determine what you do and don't like in a boyfriend.
2006-10-06 20:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young , that you don't yet know that when you are older dating becomes easier . You won't go through your whole life with out one date , no matter how you look , trust me . If you were my daughter , I would try to comfort you by telling you this . You need a self-esteem boost hun. And think about this , look at a guy that wouldn't be so hard to get . He could end up being the love of your life . You'll never know til you try at least once . I'm not saying you should go out with someone whom you aren't attracted to , but you should try to find someone who would be caring , listen and have some of the same intrests that you may have , Good luck to you !
2006-10-06 20:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by jacks_girl618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are Young !! Give it time and when you least excpect it, this wonderful boy will come around. People can tell if you are a downer. Develope a positive attitude , be happy and have fun. You are too young to even have a steady boyfriend. The day will come, when your Mr. Right will come along. Probably , you will meet that special man when you start to work. So don't be so down and feeling horrible. Probably, the boys pick up on your down heart. Change your attitude and think happy and look twords your wonderful future. Boys pick up on how you act and look. So turn your frown, upside down.
2006-10-06 20:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 yrs old and i say that you are better off without a bf. Guys are only trouble and you just started high school, now is not the time to be committed to anyone. I say you should explore a little. Having a bf only means that theres someone there to get jealous when you talk to guys. hope i helped!
2006-10-06 20:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by rramkay01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all youre only a freshman. Wait till you reach grade 11, youre bound to get a bf, but that depends on your attitude.
2006-10-06 20:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of the braggers are probably lying. At your age, you are not behind the game in any way. Give it time- you don't have to follow the herd, do you?
2006-10-06 20:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't give up. u r a freshy? try going out with someone who's a freshman too.. cause the upper classes would probably not like you.
good luck
2006-10-06 20:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋