okay... i just find out that my bf is gay!! he says he loves me, and that he wants me to become a guy!! i love him too, but i don't think i can do it! wat should i do???
2006-10-06 13:34:19 · 30 answers · asked by Lil Ms. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dumb his ***!!!! never ever change for a guy who doesn't like you for who u are, and for your gender! move on, u can can always find better!!!
2006-10-06 13:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um .... ok persons .... she says he's sixteen years previous. an more desirable hazard is there that he replaced into basically being a sixteen year previous boy and replaced into curious. i've got considered adult males his age flow to violent dying sites (because of the fact they have been into gorey crap and this is morbid and so are little ones, usually) .. in spite of the undeniable fact that it did no longer lead them to a serial killer. a youthful male could flow to a gay cyber web internet site for rather some motives ... which contains to check the human form in an inventive way different than to oogle gay adult males. lol c'mon ... this guy could probably be a superbly widely used curious youthful male. If he's have been given a girl chum at sixteen years previous, i could be keen to wager it is the case because of the fact an undesirable lot of gay adult males don't have girlfriends at sixteen .. they're too busy the two being gay .. or overlaying it up with a million different issues. My question is, does your courting seem extreme or do you get approximately 4 minutes of his time and none of his interest? And my different question could be ... why are you asking a gaggle of folk who do no longer comprehend your guy to make a judgement call on him ... once you do comprehend him? people can aid you comprehend "Oh yeah, he's deffinately gay" .. after which you will break up .. after which you will discover him with the prettiest lady in school a week later in view which you broke his heart and she or he fastened it for him. Ask him. and don't be a snot approximately it. If he's ... so what? it is unlike gay is the worst ingredient in the international. good success hon .. to the two certainly one of you. :)
2016-10-18 22:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by itani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a gay boyfriend is a difficult thing, and if you don't want to become a guy, then it's not likely to work out. You can still love each other, as friends, but you may want to look to someone else for romance.
2006-10-06 13:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is truly gay he would not want you to change for him. He would go out and find another gay man to be with. Move on and find a guy who will love you the way you are.
2006-10-06 13:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was gay than he wouldn't take the time to convince you to become a guy. Kick him to the curb and use the money you would've spent on the surgery to buy a new fuel efficient car.
2006-10-06 13:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SORRY but it just wont work, if he is gay then he will want guys just like you do, SO unless you are gay & want a sex change then you should just be friends, thats if you still want to know him.
2006-10-06 13:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a fag-hag ... but don't become a guy. He would leave you long before the transformation. Your biggest concern now is that he doesn't hit on all your cute new boyfriends :<))
2006-10-06 13:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy to become a guy. I mean say you do it for him and you become a boy, what if he breaks with you after that
2006-10-06 13:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are even considering being a guy, then what are you thinking. Just be friends and let him live the way he wants to live
2006-10-06 13:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your friends gay don't judge but that doesnt mean you have to become gay.
2006-10-06 13:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by Kiana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha ok youve got to be insane if you are even considering becoming a guy.you will prolly regret it.if hes gay then let him find guys.
2006-10-06 13:36:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋