Ok so i'm with this guy and he's most of the time with other gurl when were in skool n i don't want to tell him anything cuz i don't want him to think i'm tring to boss,him cuz i'm not!But I get upset cuz he's witht them alittle more than he is with me,an i don't know if i should tell him sumthing?But i really like him n don't want to breake up wit him cuz i really do like him so i tell myself jus to let it go n when i think about it i can't just let it go!What do think dat means n what should i do???
2006-10-06 13:25:06 · 9 answers · asked by selena_trevino 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
well you dont have to break up with him but let him know how you feel... ((thats the right way to do it)) but if it was me and im the revengeful type id start hanging out with alot more guys to show him how it feels...but thats up to you
2006-10-06 13:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by courtney k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a bit of jealousy to me. But then again, what do I know? Be VERY open minded about it, but explain to him how you feel. But, be prepared to sit down and talk it over like the nice young lady you seem to be. Don't be judgemental to start with, or you'll get nowhere. Great relationships are based on many different things, and one of things is both people need to have mutual friends as well as separate friends, both male and female. It doesn't mean that either of you have "got something going on" just because you have friends of the opposite sex. Hope this helps some. Good luck!
2006-10-06 13:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by knownothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not jealous or anything, but you feel he could spend a little more time with you than with other people. Don't seem so selfish about him when you say it though or he might take it the wrong way.
2006-10-06 13:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be with other people, I wouldnt stand in the way. Its not like you guys are married so there is no committment there. Now if you married him and he preferred other peoples company to yours, then you have a problem!
2006-10-06 13:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big clue here, kid:
"he's witht them alittle more than he is with me"
Do you really think that's gonna change? Bet it won't.
Move on.
2006-10-06 13:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is spending most of his time with another girl, screw it! say goodbye and find a better guy, hon! i think it means hes just not into you sorry truth hurts! let it go find a guy that wants to spend time with you and you alone not some guy who hangs with other chicks-- good luck!!
2006-10-06 13:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell, him and ask him to understand where you're coming from,if he's worth staying with you'll notice in the way he answers
2006-10-06 13:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by b_bolivar2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and tell him that it bothers you.. And if he doesnt care then dump him hes not worth it
2006-10-06 13:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by ladym963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on--and use spell check.
2006-10-06 13:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by violetb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋