My ex bf was sweet & caring but he was the one who ended our short relationship. But after he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn and he even invited me to his b-day which was at a club. I went w/ a friend, it was so awkward. He kept coming up to me to talk but I didn't really feel like talking to him, so it seemed like I kinda ignored him. His friend kinda liked me he followed me around and asked lots of questions, my ex got jealous & pushed his friend. Neways, after his b-day he stopped saying hi to me on msn. After 2 months of not talking one day he said hi to me on msn. he thanked me for going to his b-day (too late, I know) and he even said "I didn't mean to ignore you, sorry" then I said to him "its ok, I came so u would know that there's no hard feelings & I thought it was a good way to say bye to u & finally close the book" OK why did he invite me to his b-day? AND why did he apologize when I ignored him?
2006-10-06 13:24:13 · 12 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, we haven't talked to each other on msn anymore, it's been months since we talked.
2006-10-06 13:24:50 · update #1
He was jealous, you said so yourself. Your best bet is to not worry about it. If you keep thinking about this whole thing it is only going to drive you crazy. If you date, he will always seem available to you because he can't get over the fact that he broke up with you. He knows now what he has lost and can't live with the thought of you moving on. You worrying about this is showing him that you are still hurt. Do yourself a favor and move on from him. There are so many guys out there for you.
2006-10-06 13:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think the reason to invite you to his b-day,was to get you back...but then you ignored him and that other guy was all over you.so he got jealous and mad, about it.I think you could of had at that time a good chance to get back together,it might be now to late,but you could stil try it,when you see him on again just say hi.and see what happens next.
I suppose he will be very happy if you break the ice this time,cause he has done it more than once.
good luck
2006-10-06 20:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about all of this, this is water under the bridge. But I do think one day, he will want to walk back into your life. So go and have a good time, and don't look back, things will work out for you!
2006-10-06 20:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he still likedyou ALOT,and he invited you to see you again...It also sounds like you blew it(especially with that"close the book"comment).Good Job!!
2006-10-06 20:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just invited you to be nice or just to show off one. I would not worry about why he apologized.He may have felt bad because he may have thought he hurt you and was feeling some guilt.
2006-10-06 20:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess he mustve thot that he wants u back n so thot of gettin back in touch with u this way.. or he broke up codnt get anyone else n wanted u back!! if i was him and did whtever he did my reason wod be cuz either i missed tht person so much i wanted them back in my life, frends or more, or i realised that i really did love them n wanted them back!
2006-10-06 20:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has empathy for your situation. Sometime we can still like someone, but know it isn't right.
2006-10-06 20:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess he wanted to get back with u, then got pissed off, then realized he was being stupid so apologized for being such an ***
2006-10-06 20:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by sassy babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be he wasn't completely over you.then later realize he was being childish
2006-10-06 20:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really still likes you. give him some time and maybe there might be a reconnection!!!
2006-10-06 20:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋