But unfortunately i wasn't happy the relationship isn't how it was before,I'm really depressed not because of the relationship but because of other reasons anyways he bought me flowers it was really sweet of him but i'm not into the relationship like i used to be...any advice?
2006-10-06 13:15:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i would just wait a couple days and then tell him because if you tell him too soon then he will think its because of him and because he gave you the flowers so i would just wait a couple of days and just dont hit him hard with the news becaue thats the worst thing you can do to a person becaue a person has a heart and a heart can only take so much. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-06 13:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by softball_chick25276 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and see if the two of you can figure out what's different than before or what you feel like is missing that used to be there that isn't anymore. It's best to get this all sorted out before you get married only to discover it wasn't what you need a year from now.
2006-10-06 13:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by chnysa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings have changed trust me they wont change back,,ive been there,if he bought you flowers he still cares but i take it he doesnt know how u feel.....if there is any thing in your heart to save the relationship go for it,,if not its better to end it swift an quick...it saves a lot of future hassle
2006-10-06 13:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Neville W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just thank him and leave it at that. Wait a few days to cut it off- if you feel you need to- but don't do it in response to the flowers/
2006-10-06 13:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you p.c. to offer him a modern-day, why no longer something that he can savour like a CD or video interest? If he has a candy teeth, why no longer make him some cookies? until your guy does like cut back plant existence and is known to have some in the domicile from time to time, i'd bypass that concept.
2016-12-26 11:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by osuch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying, if you aren't into the relationship any more then you two don't need to be together. This relationship is not healthy for you but you are comfortable so you are holding on. Be honest with your self and him.
2006-10-06 13:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by juanandonlyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get couples therapy, obviously you both care about each other, but you obviously have communication issues.
Just because he gave you flowers is no reason to marry him....
2006-10-06 13:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by legallyblond2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he knows and he bought you flowers to try to spark it again. But just be honest.
2006-10-06 13:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance used to buy me a dozen roses once a week,I loved it,but the one time he did it to apologize I told him no thank you because I didn"t want a bribe for an apologie,it sounds like you two need to talk.
2006-10-06 13:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by holliela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not into the relationship break it off soon the longer you wait the harder it will be to break things off with him.
2006-10-06 13:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋