Ok this guy that I like says that he likes me too but he is 8 yrs older than me. I really like him. But I don't know wether I can trust him or not. He says he loves me and I believe but I don't know if I should. What should I do. (Please not stupid answers) Thanx
2006-10-06 13:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by Betty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am fifteen
2006-10-06 13:14:43 · update #1
i am 15 and he is 23
2006-10-06 13:24:30 · update #2
Well how old are you?
2006-10-06 13:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mizz Shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been a round this guy for any amount of time and still cant tell if you should trust him it probably a good thing that ya don't. Life is short and there are a lot of people out there looking for the right person to be with. And the right person is always going to be one you trust with no doubts in your mind. "I don't know if I can trust him" your words not mine. That's never a good sign. Every one deserves an open trusting relationship don't except any thing less. Good luck your guy is out there just don't waste to much time with Mr. Okay For Now before you meet Mr. Perfect. Oh if he is 23 and your 15 Do not trust him. Any guy his age should want to be with some one his age unless some thing is wrong with the guy that he cant find a nice girl his age so he is going after younger girls because no matter how much they think they know they dont know it all. Im sure you would agree that you are smarter now then when you were 7 right? Trust me dont waste you time with that dude he is not up to any good. If you are friends you should tell him he needs to find a girl his age.
2006-10-06 20:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by Chivalry77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 8 yrs older than my wife, but when we met she was 17. It all depends on how old you are! if you are under 16 it could be a problem- ' underage sex- parents ' think about the relationship,
' child & adult'
2006-10-06 20:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Bill UK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age isn`t important...if he is 8 years older than you it can mean only that he has got more experience than you.I would try to see if he is really that in love,how long do you know him?if it is a short time,then it could be that he wants just to sleep with you so he promises things...
but if you know him for a longer time and he didn`t try anything then,you might be lucky and have found a nice guy...i think i would go for it,and see what comes next.
good luck
2006-10-06 20:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say how old you are or for that matter how old he is, so just for the sake of argument let's say you are both over 18. If you have enough common interests and good communication, and mutual respect there is no reason that things cannot work out for you.
2006-10-06 20:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, kinda hard to answer your question cause you have not included ages, i think this makes a huge difference with myanswer, because if you are a younger women as in a teenager, i would feel more concerned about that.....i suggest you add ages to your question if that is possible....good luck.
2006-10-06 20:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how old you are. 8 years is not a lot if you both are adults. My partner now is 8 years older than me and I love him with all my heart.
2006-10-06 20:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age dont matter, trust in what you believe in if you really believe he loves you because what you think is what counts not what every one else thinks, because that is only there appion and the choise is still yours believe in your self to make the right choice.
2006-10-06 20:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by Heart-of-Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 12 years older than my wife. We met in college and it's been great. Not sure how you all met, however it can work.
2006-10-06 20:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Betty ,me and my hubby ar e10 years apart and we do great .so it depends on how you feel about him ,and if its a trust thing make him prove his trust to you or you will never know .best wishes .
2006-10-06 20:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is talking marriage and you are 18 or older then it may be o.k. Be careful whatever you do.
2006-10-06 20:15:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋