me & my b/f never met each other, but we love each other. we r internet lovers. he is claiming to love me more than himself. i also love him so much. we talked to each others parents also, soon we will marry. acctually i live in usa & he lives in canada. I belong to very rich family, but he is from poor family. but our families don't have any objections for our relation. He ask me to send some money to him, which i did so many times. my parents don't know about this. but my question is if anyone can tell me, that does my b/f loves me or not? thanx
2006-10-06 12:52:06 · 29 answers · asked by khushe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are heading into a problem!!!! Take warning!!! A guy who thinks he can take money from his girl friend, would suck your blood when you are married to him.
Never trust a guy who has got poverty as an excuse to take money. Even a real poor man will have self respect to work hard and meet his own needs.
This boy is not cheating just you, but he will be cheating himself too.
Watch out !!!!
It is better to keep him as your friend and stop calling him your lover. As some one suggested stop giving money and see if he still loves you.
IT IS DANGEROUS ! This kind of relationship is equal to consuming a slow poison.
Don't give in to his soothing words.. as you know at the end.. you will be suffering and he will be as happy as he is. He would not want to work or take responsibility for his life.
Mostly the warning bells don't ring in a girl who is in love.
I hope my warning bells ring !! and I only wish it so!!!
2006-10-06 13:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you did wrong was tell him that you have money the second thing is you never send a man money unless you really know him like you seen him and you know that your money is not going on something dumb or someone else like his other girlfriend he might be using you maybe you and him need to see each other before you guys go to far and don't send him any money let him send you something and see what you guy from that tell you need help your family put out and you have no more money and you need him very badly and see if he give his help Canada and the u.s. is not that far from each other
2006-10-06 20:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never send any money to anyone you haven't met in person. There are many men that say that they love you and promise things but just want your money. If hes truly in love with you he would met you before he says it. There are some things that you cant do over the Internet.
2006-10-06 20:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsnickers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to tell since its an internet thing......how long have you two been together? Have you ever met each other in person? These internet relationships usually dont work out unless you guys are always seeing eachother at lease once during the week. Stop sending him money, he shouldnt have known that you even had it. Who is to say he'snot just using you?
2006-10-06 19:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kushe you are getting into some funny situation. I think he is utilising for his personal end. Start questioning the money he is requiring like for what he wants. If he is true he will answer. If he is telling lies he might not be able to do so continue. At one time he will start telling the same lie. Better take care. Love must not be suspected but when you got a doubt better clear it
2006-10-07 01:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may indeed love you or even have feelings for you. If you are already giving him money , think about how your mariage will be. He should want to provide for you , just because he comes from a poor family he should make more effort. You maybe sending him money so that he can be with someone else. Just watch your self and go with your first instinct.
2006-10-06 20:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by juanandonlyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think sending him money to help him out with his finances is a good idea. I would stop it immediately until you actually meet him in person to find out what kind of person he actually is. You also did not say if he is going out with friends. Then again, if he really loved you he would not be asking for money from you especially when you never met him. He sounds like he is using you. Stop sending him money....then see if he loves you or not. I don't think he is cheating on you....but i think he is cheating your love by sending him money.
2006-10-06 23:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by jenn1801 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person really has to be careful with who they meet over the internet. They could be the exact opposite of who you think they are. I would be extremely careful with sending money. You might get used.
2006-10-06 20:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Corrections: cheating on me, NOT "CHEATING WITH ME"
my bf & I, NOT "ME & MY BF"
Geezz, don't you go to school. Do yourself a favor, get at least a G.E.D and learn to write correct English. It's a shame to live in this great nation with free eduction and be illiterated.
Please, don't take it personal, I'm not being mean here. I'm just trying give you some productive feedbacks here. Don't just take my word for it, ask around, your parents, friends, or anyone on this Yahoo answering.
Best of luck, I mean it well!!
2006-10-06 20:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your story is even true, he's playing you like an old fiddle. If your parents know of the relationship, then why do they not know of the money you send? Be careful with this.
2006-10-06 19:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋