hes a music junkie (knows everything about any band he likes, etc. etc. etc. he likes metallica and rock and 80's metal) our music choices are different (mainly b/c ive never heard many songs by metallica or black sabbath <-his two fav. bands) and i like bands like gNr, def leppard, poison, and new bands (hinder, nickelback) and rap and r&b (i like pretty much everything)
we buttheads alot and i dont know, we dont have anything in common it seems but yet i still find myself like'n him, i learn so much around him (about bands, movies) he has a sarcastic sense of humor and i have a goofy sense of humor and..ahh hes just everything im not, and i like it?
why?!
2006-10-06 12:40:30 · 7 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wont give me a chance, but yet he likes me? i think were both afraid we wont end up together and ruin the whatever-ship we've created together <3
2006-10-06 12:45:05 · update #1
The ole' saying........... opposites attract.. it is true...
2006-10-06 12:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a healthy relationship where the person is opposite of you, be sure to remind him once in awhile of the things you appreciate about him!
Being opposites can work if you are complimentary to the relationship and both are open-minded with the ability to compromise when needed. Not having those abilities could create potential conflict leading to a bitter breakup. You need to analyze which category your relationship falls into. Good luck!
2006-10-06 19:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh trust me this happens to every girl at some point.
you fall for the one guy you figure you'd NEVER even look at twice.
trust me though, sometimes the guy can surprise you. the guy I like and i are complete opposites in a ton of ways, but the chemistry just works, ya know? in your case as long as there's chemistry it makes sense. you also may feel like you want someone that is everything you're not so you can learn and grow with them. you can't help who you fall for...
good luck with him!
-AL
2006-10-06 19:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by darksideofthemoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really cant help who you have feelings for, but they do say opposites attract right? Try giving him a chance, it might just work out better than you think.
2006-10-06 19:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites attract right?
I'm a scruffy, messed up emo kid, doesn't mean I'd go for a scruffy, messed up emo girl.
xx
2006-10-06 19:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes opposites attract
2006-10-06 19:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by preast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he balances you out? He'll intorduce you to new and exciting things...
2006-10-06 19:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Girlie Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋