I am always mad at him because of what he does, and he can never do anything right, and nothing he does is good enough. I even find it almost impossible to say the 3 words anymore. Yet, I cant seem to let go. Am I out of love ? How do I know ?
2006-10-06 12:19:21 · 17 answers · asked by Mx2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are not married. We are in a long distance relationship because over a year ago, he made the choice to make it so. 2.5 years and counting.
2006-10-06 12:30:19 · update #1
If you are asking this question to more than just yourself, you probably already know the answer. Life is short, don't stay out of guilt. Move on, have fun! Good Luck!
2006-10-06 12:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice, not a feeling. If you never made the choice to serve and care for the person regardless of how you feel, then you never really loved the person in the first place. Couples that stay married and happily are those where both partners have made the choice to care for the other no matter what happens. Even when they don't feel like it. The question really becomes, are you willing to make the commitment to stick by your choice? Love is not conditional, and you can only control your own. So you have to decide if you're going to take the risk of giving it, or stay single. But any other relationship that is based on feelings and what you can get from the other person is not love, never was and never will be.
2006-10-06 12:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Eric T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Know Thyself...
You sound like a typical spouse to me.
Just make sure to remind him he can never do anything right.
Tell him nothing he does is good enough and generally make him wish he was dead.
It is your duty as his significant other to belittle him, disrespect him and suck what life he may have left out of him.
You can't let go because you are selfish and afraid of the unknown so you hold on to even this misery rather than stepping into the unknown.
Trust me if you can talk about him like this to total strangers...you never were in Love, so you have fallen out of nothing but a delusion which made you feel better about having sex with him.
2006-10-06 12:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are outta love with him. I am going through the same situation at this time. It is time to just get to know yourself for a change your love for him is gone. You have to make up your mind on what you want to do. Yeah it is hard to let go cause you enjoy the company and you know that once he is gone you will have to start all over again. Nothing my friend does makes me happy no mater how hard he tries. I say that the love is gone you may need some time to yourself to think about what it is that you really want.
2006-10-06 12:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have fallen out. Just because you've built a history with someone does not mean that they're the person for you. Let it go now before you have to hire an attorney. Good luck.
2006-10-06 12:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by katfred76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you share an residence, or is this a house you very own, she owns with you?......it may desire to be or no longer be complicated. If that's an residence, supply her your portion of the lease for the impending month, tell her she would manage to maintain a million/2 of the deposit and are available across a sparkling place to stay. Be gentle and sort, it extremely is obviously hurting her. in case you very own the domicile then you definately can in simple terms ask her to pass out and tell her you will supply her a month to discover a sparkling place. in case you the two very own the domicile, then you definately will the two could desire to purchase her out or sell to her.
2016-12-13 03:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that the love you have for him is almost gone. In several of my past relationships I have felt the sameway that you are feeling now. Everything that they did seemed to get on my nerves. After praying and thinking about it I knew that it was time for me to let them go. Just make sure that whatever decision you make that you are willing to live with it.
2006-10-06 12:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by SWEET HEART 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u try to avoid him, more than you want to see him, than somethings wrong. you cant seem to let go because you still love him but your not in love with him anymore.. I recently dealt with a situation very similar.... she just wasnt a nice person and isnt ever going to change... I still love her but I couldent stand to be around her anymore... It was sad but it had to end...I hope that you make the best decission for you.
2006-10-06 12:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by brandon j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will have the answer to this one yourself.
I was with someone for nearly 8 yrs and if I was honest with myself I knew from the start that I wasn't in love, even if I told him I was.
No one can tell you how you feel.
2006-10-06 12:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never b out of love(not to sound like a shrink) but if you really love him then you would accept all the things he does. example. if he gave you pink roses and you wanted red ones and you go mad, then that means that your not really in love because you would accept them
2006-10-06 12:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Blabbity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋