Oral or penatration doesn't seem to work, is this normal after 2 years of being together? She told me sex has never been a big thrill for her, I'm worried that if we continue our relationship we may end up cheating on each other. This makes me not intrested in sex with her. Is this normal or should I have reason to worry?
2006-10-06 12:03:19 · 20 answers · asked by Marc x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have open communication maybe she finds other things more appealing times have changed. try new positions. try more foreplay before just going for it.
2006-10-06 12:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by imissyou_iluvyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's pleasure depends heavily on her mental state. If she is stressed out, she may be thinking about other things instead of really getting into the sexual experience. Also, if she's feeling self-conscious for any particular reason (gained a few pounds, for instance), that can interfere with her ability to be uninhibited and truly get into it. Also, I think of the woman knows the man is really concerned with giving her an orgasm, there can be a lot of pressure and it can make it worse.
2006-10-06 12:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kiki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An orgasm is not just a physical thing, it is a mental thing and it starts the very moment that you glance at each other. Tease her, work on your kissing technique, give massages, bubble baths. Give her something to think about withoutout having sex. Get in her head before you get in her bed!!!!!
2006-10-06 12:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes this is normal and you need to do something to "spice" it up!!! And if you really loved her...well....you wouldn't cheat and you shouldn't make sex the priority of the relationship either...you would work it out with her...there may be something goin on in her life that she doesn't want to talk about...who knows....
2006-10-06 12:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... hmmm 2 years.. I think if you try some new things that will get her started again. And if she still doesnt enjoy it.. well then i think you better find yourself another girl. Because eventually you're gonna start to get tired of her and the relationship is not going to work. But maybe new and exciting things will help!
2006-10-06 12:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by Gaby H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's proven...
If you are getting sex, it's 10% of the relationship
If you are not getting sex, it's 90% of the problem
Some people are just not into sex. Yeah, I was shocked too. Does she have any past traumas that may be triggering?
Does she feel "violated" or "dirty"?
Might be some subconscious issues.
2006-10-06 12:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh properly that sux. the in elementary words challenge you may do is replace positions. #a million Have her lay on her stomache legs at the same time, you behind her. #2 Have her lay on her area with legs at the same time. #3 both you on suitable or her as long as you're at suitable angles to eachother you could hit the G spot. that may regularly provide adequate friction for an orgasm.
2016-12-04 08:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is that happens when u do that b4 ur married! I guess ur not a christian you shouldn't b interested in her body but her attitude, stop thinking of her as some1 u want 2 mess with and start treating her like a girlfriend! Hope you change!
2006-10-06 12:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ern Bucket 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lightly (and I mean very lightly) flirt with another woman and watch her reaction.
If she silently makes a note of it and doesn't confront you... She's probably not interested in you anymore.
Then again if you get home and she shags you rotten... She's still interested in you and fighting to keep her man!
If all she does is bark and complain to you about it... Mental or emotional troubles could be pestering her. In that case be patient.
2006-10-06 12:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's getting it from somewhere else. He's probably doing a better job than you, so u compared to him isnt as exciting. Start doing some investigating until u catch her in the act.
2006-10-06 12:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey marc, have her drink one glass of water and then one hour later both of you have a beer. when its time for her to pee, do not let her. a full bladder is needed for females to achieve a full orgasm and she might even squirt across the room. 80% of american women never achieve this because they and their partners dont know. so now u know. if u dont believe me, look on web. try it good luck pal
2006-10-06 12:26:25 · answer #11 · answered by Necat T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋