I'm a very shy person, I just started college and I like a girl in one of the classes I have but I'm too shy to make a move. She looks at me at times but I don't know what to do, I been told that I'm attractive and have gotten a lot of attention from other girls around the campus who stare at me but I dont know what to say or do. any advice??
2006-10-06 11:35:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what will u loose if u make a move
NOTHIN
the worst thing that can happen is that she will turn u down
no big deal
2006-10-06 11:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by EyasOo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all... when she looks at you, SMILE!!! Send her a smile back, this shows her you are open and positive about her. If you get a smile back (even if its a little one) your getting closer to perhaps talking to her. So start just smiling across the room, then perhaps if you get a little closer to her, say in a corridor, smile but also say hello. This way your talking it slowly and gently building on what you have already done. Make sure she has time to respond if she wants to (dont say hi if she is running past in a hurry until your already on saying hi terms). Hopefully once your saying hi to each other, start asking her a question... perhaps just "Hi, how was class"... or something more original! Get talking. You will find that doing this should bring you two closer and you will become less shy around her. If your good looking, go you!!! Hope this helps :-)
2006-10-06 11:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by QQZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take advantage of the situation... I hear you.. you get looks... Use this as an indicator that you are appealing to some girls. I know it's not easy BUT you gotta do it; or you can just go through college without dating (not an option)...
Punchline: There are 2 or 3 things you could say:
1) Hey whats up? You're in Chem101 right? Umm Do you want to study sometime? (no pressure, just a regular question.)....If she says no to that... She is anti-social or lame.
2) You're walking on campus...and you see a cute girl..and you got a look... grab your guns, and go for it... "Hey whats up? Do you know where the library/bursars office/caffeteria is?"
If all else fails join a club that interests you (and meet girls that way)...if it's too dorky though go just for the heck of it.
Do it once...then do it to get a phone number... then do it to get a date...
GL
2006-10-09 15:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by Duuuude no waaaay! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say something like hey whats up? etc etc but then throw in would you like to go study sometime (for whatever subject class she is in with you)? Say like we can meet at such and such a place. Then you can get to know her better there and probably feel a lot more comfortable when you see her next time that asking her to hang out for a non-study time will be much easier.
I would go for a public place like starbucks or some lunch place so she'll for more comfortable. Definitely not your house. Oh and be sure to exchange numbers for this study time!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-06 11:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Rx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm variety of a shy guy or woman until eventually you get to appreciate me. attitude the shy-er (shier? shyer? ehh!) females as you may everybody else. Smile and be friendly because of the fact i admire friendly human beings. It makes me experience like i'm able to open up too. i'm uncertain what kinda furnish help to choose. while you're going after a shy female, you will probably could start up the 1st conversations until eventually she gets extra self belief around you. solid success with whoever you're after! (P.S. jointly as you anticipate extra solutions, prefer to envision out mine?)
2016-10-15 22:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a cliche yes i know but just say hi n be urself. Don't overdo it or u'll come across as weird and creepy. A little goes along way. Girls like a sense of humor too. And oh yeah make sure ur breath is fresh.
2006-10-06 11:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by Retarded Genius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just be yourself. Don't try to impress her with lies or things you don't have. You could start buy asking her about the notes she took in class because the ones you took were too messy or ask her to explain to you something the teacher said you didn't understand, that could be a good start. Go talk to her! THEN, ask her out.
2006-10-06 11:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by Adriana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude just remeber that first you cant trust your emotions so stop thinking about how you feel scared and all that second just remember its all a game like a video game so dont be scared and go talk to her. Walk up to her and say hey My name manny the martian what flavor bowling ball do you like she will laugh a little and then start by asking her a question about her self like what does she think about the school and when she replys ask her a question about her reply remember to listen to what she is saying and paraphrase it back to her dont be nervous and us lots of humor
2006-10-06 11:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just going to have to pluck up the courage and say hello. I always think whats the worse thing that can happen, and generally that is I will never talk to her and never find out if I stood a chance.
2006-10-06 11:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bob-bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No paper or notes, that was in middle school. Bro, walk up to her and say, "Hi I'm so and so". Then just ask her questions like what are you studying and things like that. bee down to earth, dont be desperate or shy, girls dont like that. gl
2006-10-06 11:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by mermer7@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋