can some body help me deal with by boy friend. okay he is mean very time i want to be with him he is with his friends but why not me??????????????
2006-10-06 11:31:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is OK to have time to spend with your friends and to have time to spend with each other separately. If he is mean in other ways, like hits you or yells or calls you names, then it is time to move on. You have to compromise in every relationship to a point. You both have to give and take. If it really bothers you, talk to him about it. You should be able to sit down with him and discuss each others feelings and wishes in the relationship.
2006-10-06 11:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can appreciate a man and his time with his friends. It's also known as space. I am sure there are times you want to be with your friends too. However, he needs to realize that when you decide you want to be in a relationship with someone, you need to be able to balance your time with people. If you cannot find time to be with that special someone, then its not time to date. I think you should sit down with him, tell him how you feel, ask him for some time together, and if it's not important to him, then he is not the one! Good luck hun!
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2006-10-06 11:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you bug him to much yes it's important to spend time with him but you can't spend all your time with him he does have other peopl in his life besides you.Did you ever think that his friends might be trying to keep you away from him, they might have a problem wiht you.You should confront him about the feelings you have and possibally the feelings you have for him.
2006-10-06 11:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your BF sounds immature and inconsiderate please dump him and be with a guy that will want to show you love and respect and its cool if he hangs out with friends but there should also be a time set for you and tell him you are not his scape goat and to go somewhere else for that BS good luck to you
2006-10-06 11:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the dump him. You could find someone that would love to be with you. And you totally deserve to be with someone that would want to be with you instead of their friends.
2006-10-06 11:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by surfadudett00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to spend some one on one time with some guys for a while...make some plans to hang out with him some nite or whatever....
2006-10-06 11:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by mchellon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to beg him to be with you?
find someone that is willing to be with you.
sounds like he is immature and needs growing up
you are worth it, look for someone better
that will make you happy and spend his time
with you.
good luck
2006-10-06 11:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he cares for you as much as he should. Find someone who does. I have been that guy..
2006-10-06 11:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and talk to him ask him why he is acting this way. ask his friends maybe something's wrong that you don't know.
2006-10-06 11:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Norlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋