dieing and wondering?

Question

I am so afraid of dieing...ever since my mom died at age 64 back in jan 29th, 2006.....will i see her when i am in heaven? when i visit her grave , does she even know i am there?

my son was born feb 3rd ...5 days later...so i always know how long she has been gone

Answer 1

You can't always scare of dying. If you are so scared to die, you will live your life miserably. Just believe that your mother is in heaven watching you. It's all depends on what you believe, dear. Live life to your fullest, okay?

Answer 2

Great question.

What do you believe? Do you think you will see her again? This is purly based on your personal beliefs and religion. Honestly, you cannot get one answer that you will think is the right one. It is a question many people wonder.

Do not fear death, it is a part of life. The best advice I can give you is to embrace all the wonderful memories you shared with her, and be grateful for that. I know it is difficult to do at first, but in the long run, it is the only thing you can do, besides just getting angry.

Answer 3

I don't know your personal opinion on life after death or any of that, but I honestly believe that our loved ones stay with us where ever we are. I mean that's great that you go visit your mother's grave & all but I really think that you can talk to her wherever you are. Have you ever seen Sylvia Browne on the Montel Williams show? She's on every Wednesday show. I'm reading one of her latest books it's called If You Could See What I See. She's one of the New York Times best-selling authors & she's also a psychic who speaks to the dead. You should try reading her book, no matter if you believe in that kind of thing or not she really gives good insight & she gave me an entirely new way of looking at life after death & also just my beliefs in general plus it's a really good read and it may give you some new direction & peace of not only your mom's passing but also your own. Good luck.

Answer 4

I mourn for your loss but you cannot lament on her passing. If you do believe in heaven, her passing should be confirmation to your heart that she has moved on to a better place and is with her creator.
You sound depressed to me. You should go see people who deal in this sort of thing. Maybe a youth minister or a grief counselor. The loss of someone close to you is difficult, but you must know that it is a normal part of life and the spiritual cycle.
Once again, sorry to hear about your loss but for your own health and for those who love you, you must persevere. Do not ever forget your memories with her, but be strong and persevere through these hard times.

Answer 5

I am no authority on this, and never claim to be, but I vist my wife's grave and I know I get a comfortable feeling when I do, because I think she knows I am there, and yes, you will see her in heaven. I lost my wife in 2003, but it was a blessing. She had suffered with cancer for so long. I feel I put her through more pain than necessary, because I kept praying for God to extend her life, and I realize now , that was being selfish on my part. God Bless.

Answer 6

be not afraid of Death as He is a kind messenger who will lead one from an imperfect state to the perfect state into the celestial palace where GOD reigns supreme. certain you will see your loved ones who have gone before and you will await those loved ones whom you leave behind as all will know each other. feel strongly your mother knows you are there even though it is only her physical shell in the ground as her soul has gone to Heaven. her spirit is with you and will always be with you just like your spirit will become a part of those whom you will leave behind when your time on this plane of existence is over.

Answer 7

Based on what is written in the Bible, you will probably see her on judgment and stand wherever she is, either in judgment, or eternal life. If youre visiting her grave and she can see you that means her spirit is NOT at rest and probably headed for judgment. Good spirits rest in a decent restful place until judgment day. I highly doubt the wicked and ungodly are afforded any comfort after death.

Answer 8

To live is to die, to die is to live again. It's our destiny, She's in heaven, and doing fine, yes you will see her in heaven, unless she come to visit you.... you never know when it may happen. The next time you visit her grave, take something of hers that was personal, hold it in your hand, and talk to her as a prayer, she would hear you.

Yes she can hear you, especially when you are in prayer.

When I was a child, I was always afraid of death, but now that I know more about heaven, I want to go now:)

Answer 9

I understand, but you should not fear death. Your mom by now (unless she has found enlightenment) has found another body and will continue on with her existence. She probably, right now, has loving parents taking care of her. So it goes.

For you, studying what happens after death should help. Find something online by the Dalia Lama on the subject. He will explain it in simple terms.

If you want a real in-depth understanding of death read the book 'The Tibetan Book of the Dead', translated by W.Y. Evans-Wentz.

Answer 10

I personally think a body is just a box and when we die, we leave it. Your mom's box is in another box in the ground. She isn't there. She's in your heart and in your memories. As long as you remember her, she lives on. I could wax philosophical and Biblical here, but you have to seek that on your own. Perhaps prayer can lead you down the right path.