Okay. I like this guy a lot. But he is not serious about anything. Some people say he likes me, some people say he doesn't. He sometimes acts like he does, and sometimes its exact opposite. He acts really sarcastic around me, and acts like im non-exsistent when his friends are around. I can't ask him out because he wants to "get to know me better" but is not putting any effort into it. and he'd ratehr watch south park then write a note to me. i DONT want to move on so help me with other than telling me to move on. what do i say? how do i act? what do i do?
that was my recent question but:....
also. lets say me being myself is a litle loud, a little hyper and sometimes a little obnoxious, but thats just me. so i think being myself drives him away.
and how do i back off a little so he'll get attracted?
2006-10-06 11:17:17 · 10 answers · asked by Shayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I won't tell you to move on. But maybe you should not pay him so much attention, see if he writes you or contacts you. I'm not saying don't talk at all, but see if he makes some moves. When you see him be friendly, say hi to him, show interest, but don't chase.
2006-10-06 11:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so what is it about this guy you like? That he ignores you? That he's sarcastic around you? That he likes South Park more than you? That he makes no effort to get to know you? That he's not serious about you?
I'm wondering why you even bother with this dork.
How do you act? Like he's the loser he is.
What do you do? Nothing. Wait for a nicer guy to show an interest in you. You're too young to start forcing boys who ignore you to like you. Yes, you DO want to move on. Trust me. You really do.
2006-10-06 11:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of trying to win him over, I think it should be HIM trying to win YOU over. Does this guy make you feel happy? Do you feel like you can be your true self around him? Are you two on good-speaking terms and know each other as friends? Is he nice and respectful towards you? It, honestly, just from your description, sounds as if he's messing with your mind. You don't deserve someone like that, and if you have to try so hard to win him over, he probably isn't even worth it. Have a guy chasing you and is totally in love with your personaliy; don't chase a guy who doesn't give you the respect you deserve and "has to get to know you" before he decides who he wants to be with. Good luck!
2006-10-06 11:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firt of all if u get hyper kind tht likes to let loose and he doesnt like it then he aint for you. seond try to start a conversation or joke with him. Holding on without trying to push it the worst thing u can do. You have to make a move cause guys today {some} wont make the first move
2006-10-06 11:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by elc9933 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to change yourself! NEVER change yourself for a boy/man!! What you need to do is find a hobby that doesn't in ANY way involve or relate to him. Make yourself busy. That way he'll see that you have your own life and your own interests besides him. If he really wants you he'll come get you!
If not - he's just a stupid little boy who watches too much South Park....brace yourself boys that like don't change much as they age...
2006-10-06 11:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is so not meant to be mean AT ALL. There's a book called "He's Just Not That Into You". I am telling you it's not to hurt feelings, just to help us UNDERSTAND!!!
Try looking it up online, or even better go to Oprah.com and type the title of the book in and read...
Trust me, it's incredible.
2006-10-06 11:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by mochajavalatte25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop. Stop calling, stop dwelling, stop yappin to your friends. Just focus on homework and other things you can do to occupy your mind and leave him alone. If he wants to be with you, he'll find a way to make you happy.
PS, Boys are RETARDS until usually their 30's so don't hold your breath for change.
2006-10-06 11:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay lisen to me i think you sould go up to him even if he is with his friend and get aggresive tell him that you really want to talk to him and what ever you do dont get timid, so you ask him outoh and go to privite place so you can chat and let every thing out. hope you write me back bye
2006-10-06 11:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im thinkin leave him alone. if any other guys ask u out(dont ask one of ur guys frends to ask u out it wont work!!!) and say yeah sure. then just hang out with the other guy till ur guy finally sees u dont dont take bullsht like that.
2006-10-06 11:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by lothargrl_4_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hibernate until you mature. . .
2006-10-06 11:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by zambranoray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋