Is it ok for a girlfriend to go away with her ex, stating she is only friends with him, that a relationship didnt work out, but they can only have a friendship. I am not jealous nor do I have a trust issue, I just want to know what someone else thinks?
2006-10-06 10:40:37 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a perfect world I would say it could be innocent. My gut tells me it could easily go awry. You know, start out with pure and honest intentions but what ever was there that attracted them to each other in the first place is still there and sparks could easily ignite. You may choose to be stoic and understanding and not put up a fight, but I would at least let her know it makes you uneasy, and why.
2006-10-06 11:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't jealous or had trust issue you wouldn't post this question! You do!! Now to your question no its not OK and you know that! Would she allow you to do same with an ex of yours? Doubtful, no my friend she is clearly still interested in her ex although he may not return interest. Regardless this is 100% unacceptable! You need to find new gal pal because this one already had one foot out door!
2006-10-06 17:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually I say you never go backwards,but it depends on why you broke up in the 1st place.If it was because you was young and you moved or she moved,then that's o.k.But if it's ecause somebody cheated no!Unless you are sure both of you have you're priorities 2gether.I did read what you stated,but if she left with an ex,what's that's all about.Sounds like more than a friendship to me.Why did'nt you go?
2006-10-06 17:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh honey. There is more to that relationship than being "friends" Believe me, I'm 54, and I've been around the blocks a few times. You're cute. Find a new girlfriend, who only concentrates on you. This current situation will only lead to heartache. Believe me.
2006-10-06 17:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by dogsrulecatsqtime 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For sure.
I think it's fine.
She should have the freedom to do whatever she wants, within the rules of a monogamous relationship, just as you should.
As long as you trust her not to do anything, there is no big deal.
Don't look at him as an ex, see him as a friend she has, nothing more.
2006-10-06 17:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by godathonone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it's ok for her to go away with the ex....as a friend. but, if you feel uncomfortable with it, you need to let her know. and if she can't reassure you, then the respectful thing for her to do is not go. if you are honest with yourself, and you've determined that you aren't jealous or have trust issues, then it doesn't matter what others think about it.
2006-10-06 17:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is ok for a gf to go away with her ex i did it yesterday(had a nice time until he got on my nerves). there is a different bond you know u can't be lovers because u stink at it but u know u make the best of friends ........don't make nothing into something bffl(bestfriends for life)smile
2006-10-06 17:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I go on vacation with my ex-huband, (we have a 13 year old son together) his wife and daughters every December. Nothing wrong with it at all!
2006-10-06 17:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by chi chi's mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everytime when something like this happen all the time she ends up with him.so i think u should leave her ,cause she though u dont mind if shes going out with him.my point is that u dont have to let her do this,she have to choose which one she wants. think about and dont make a decision when ur mad ok?
2006-10-06 17:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow..my friend i think you should double check your standers and make her realise what she is doing isn't normal!as far as you know they might be at it as we are speaking!so its time to put your feet on the ground and tell her i don't want you seeing him anymore.unless it is in public area with other friends but not one on one!..EX's are bad news my friend!so i suggest you be on top of your game and say whats on your mind before its too late!
good luck!
2006-10-06 17:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ghass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋