Let's say there is a boy in seventh grade who lost count of his ex girlfriends because he's had so many. Do you think this is good? My ex boyfriend was making fun of me because I've only had 2 boyfriends and he was bragging that he's lost count of his girlfriends..what does this tell someone? That he apparently doesn't really care about the girls he dates, right? And isn't that a little ridiculous at twelve years old?
2006-10-06 10:13:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he ain't lying...i have proof from my best friend who had known him since kindergarten..his 1st gf was in KINDERGARTEN...!
2006-10-06 10:16:34 · update #1
OK, I remember 7th grade, and i remember being in virtually the same position, so i feel you.
the guy has self-esteem problems, he's trying to make himself feel big by having a lot of girlfriends, and he's trying to impress YOU and prove to you that he is desirable etc. it's one of those things where he he's trying to make himself feel better by making you feel bad. It also means that he might not like you as a person but as another girlfriend so he feels desired.
my advice would be, don't take any sh*t from him. let him know that your not impressed by the # of girlfriends he's had, and your completely comfortable with who you are.
2006-10-06 10:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that he may be embarrassed to admit how many girlfriends he has had one way or another. Meaning he has had too many or that he's had too few and feels that you may feel differently about him depending on what he tells you so it was more simple to say that he has lost count. I've used that in situation where I thought the number of times for something may be embarrassing - not girlfriends but if I were worried that I had done something more or fewer times than my peers that it would be embarrassing. Hope that makes sense. You might not want to read too much into the fact that he has said that.
2006-10-06 10:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by doubtful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking the question is a little ridiculous. At that age its only puppy love not any type of real relationships. For him to even say that then they he is trying to cover his ego than he probably only has had 3 or 4 that really matters.
2006-10-06 10:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by NebCamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - some of these answers are mean. Just ignore the ones that act up here. The guy is still hot for you if you are getting this type of bragging from him. Ignore him and he will chase you. Go for him and he will continue to rat on you. He is lonely and wanting a girlfriend so bad.
2006-10-06 10:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You yourself are immature. Relationships at that age aren't real relationships anyway as you are not emotionally developed enough to know or understand what real love or feelings for a person is.
He is experimenting and finding himself, so are you. Relationships in the 7th grade are just "close friendships". There is no sexual component or deep rooted possibility for emotional attachment. Merly wanting and schoolgirl curiosity.
There is nothing wrong with him not remembering (which is probably bs anyway, he likely hasn't had any) and nothing wrong with you having 2.
2006-10-06 10:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a commercial on TV that ask the question- What happen to Napoleon when he tried to invade Russia- answer that question and you will figure out your question. Truthfully, concentrate on your school work there is plenty of time in your life for boys when you grow up. Just think you will be smart and beautiful then
2006-10-06 10:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by roydono 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think young people, for better or worse, have more sexual experience than kids from previous generations, but any Seventh Grader who tells you that he "lost count" of all of his ex-girlfriends is either yanking your chain or trying to impress you; either way, he's lying.
2006-10-06 10:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by nacmanpriscasellers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you called it correctly -- he doesn't care about the girls and it IS ridiculous.
It also shows that he can not maintain a relationship, which means he has no sense of loyalty, is selfish and will end up very lonely when all the girls figure out that he’s using them.
2006-10-06 10:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Celt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he goes through girlfriends like kleenex. At your age, two boyfriends is alot. He's probably just in it for the action if he has had so many girlfriends.
2006-10-06 10:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by Viking Chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying and has an overinflated ego. He's a wannabe player. He's trying to make himself feel good by making you feel bad or inadequate. It's a little immature, even at his age.
2006-10-06 10:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋