Okay, I put up a question earlier about whether or not it was okay to have a bf and a gf if i was bi. most of you said it was wrong and that i should just chose one. well, i chose the girl. And the other night we were text messageing her and she told me she had sex with her ex bf. Now understand she's in a different state, and I still love her but I'm just a little mad at her for it. Should I be mad at her? Should I just let it go or should I let her go?
2006-10-06 10:09:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its ok to be mad,but you still have to let her know you love her and that you can forgive
2006-10-06 10:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you two agree to fool around with other people, you have to let it go. You can' t really get mad at her if you too have agreement like that. Talk to her about it, and how you feel about it.If you have monogamous relationship of course you have the right to get mad, who is not. you can be bi but you should have a relationship with only one person. Use protection!
2006-10-06 17:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your own morals.
I have friends who are bi, and have both boy/girlfriends.
I have other ones who think they should only be with one.
I think that it doesn't matter if they're a different sex or the same, if you are in a relationship, it should be with only one person.
If you had a boyfriend, and he had sex with his ex girlfriend, would you be mad at him?
Would you let it go? Or would you let him go.
You're in a relationship with her, and only her.
It shouldn't be any different then if she was the opposite sex.
2006-10-06 17:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by godathonone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure than you're not ready for a relationship. Go ahead and go out with boys and girls but don't commit to anyone until you know what you want. Be honest and upfront with the people your are dating so they don't get their feeling hurt.
2006-10-06 17:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, obviously she is confused and willing to f*ck her b/f regardless of the effect on you. Find someone close to where you are and make love until you pass out.
2006-10-06 17:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a little mad at her??? I think you should be a lot mad at her. I would say dump her. Now. If not sooner. My opinion. Good Luck
2006-10-06 17:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't be mad because you were messing around too. what goes around comes around.
2006-10-06 17:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by missie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should let her go. try to see how its like with a guy
2006-10-06 17:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by jelly1505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on.
2006-10-06 17:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go...and date a guy
2006-10-06 17:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋