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Sure.

If she says no you will be a little embarrased and maybe feel kinda rejected and sad for a little bit....then you'll get over and move on.

If she says yes you will have some fun.

You have to take a chance every now and then....

2006-10-06 10:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes, of course! You have a little to lose if she says "no," but you have a LOT to lose if you wait. Here are the reasons to do it now:

(1) If you wait, she may think YOU aren't interested in her.
(2) If you wait, she may not even consider you as a possible love interest because she's just never thought about it.
(3) If you wait, someone else may snap her up.

Of course, there are a few pros to waiting:
(1) If you wait, you can try to see if she likes you for sure.
(2) If you wait, you may discover you don't really care for her.
(3) If you wait, you won't potentially humiliate yourself if she says, "NO!"

Still, I think in matters of the heart, boldness will carry you a long way. It's only a date. You will live if she says "no." But you would kick yourself if you lost the chance through not acting. So ask her out already! :-) And good luck!

2006-10-06 10:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by lilgoat4 2 · 0 0

yes, don't be an immature wuss. The worst thing that can happen is she says "no".

If you don't ask, you won't go out with her, if she says "no" you won't go out with her. Seems to me that not doing anything is the same as losing, if you don't ask you lose, and you lose more because you waste your time not knowing, and being stuck on a girl who may not like you best to find out. you need to grow some balls some time in your life how about now?

Girls are just as nervous as you are moreso because although it is slightly different today, there is still a social stigma about girls making the first move.

There is no humiliation in being told "no". You are told no all your life about certain things, why is this any different. Its all in your head, get over it and ask.

2006-10-06 10:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Where is the lion in you ?Bring it out and do not be afraid of rejection for you will regret not asking than living with your cowardice forever,Women like guys that are confident ,honest,responsible and straightforward and if you can represent this and coupled with readiness for a serious relationship,she will say yes and you will be ready for her best because you have made her curious about you,good luck.

2006-10-06 10:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by delmy d 3 · 0 0

Of course you should...it is the only way to find out what you actually want to know.
If she sais i will think about it,then it means she is not yet prepaired,but she likes you at least a bit.
if she sais she can`t but maybe another time,then you`ve got a second chance.
If she answers no,then it is clear that she doesn`t like you
and if it`s yes then she likes you alot.
Go for it.
Goos Luck.

2006-10-06 10:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by donatella 3 · 0 0

No you should just leave her alone and then spend the rest of your life wondering if she liked you and what would have happened if you went out.

Of course you should ask her out! You might get rejected you might not but thats life. And as the guy, its your job to make the first move.

2006-10-06 10:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0 0

yes, some girls, like me, were taught to let the guys do the asking. Have you ever seen the movie Gigit? well there is a scene where Giget is unsure about 'moonndoggie' . her mom tell her that one of the great things about being a girl is that you do not have to ask a guy out becase that i a man's job.

2006-10-06 10:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0 0

What have you got to lose? Might as well. If she says yes, great, if she says no, who cares because you weren't gonna try anyway so you didn't come out with a loss.

2006-10-06 10:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by Viking Chicken 2 · 0 0

Well, I'm pretty shy, but if I wasn't I'd go up and ask that special person to go out.
So I guess give it a try. What do you have to loose?

2006-10-06 10:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkleberrygirl 2 · 0 0

sure you should. You won't know how she feels about you until you ask her. If she says no, then oh well, you'll move on, but if she says yes, then great!!

2006-10-06 10:06:11 · answer #10 · answered by amanda725_2000 2 · 0 0

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