the people who are interested in me i dont fancy sexually but get on with really well as friends and i truly couldnt go there sexually...the ones i do fancy sexually i end up blowing it...im confident and good looking, so wht the hell is going on????
2006-10-06 10:02:07 · 14 answers · asked by trixiecat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're looking for love in all the wrong places. Try this-- don't look for anything wait and when you least expect it- you will meet someone who will really rock your world!
2006-10-06 10:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be doing this for a variety of reasons. Perhaps you are too picky or you are searching for "the one", and so are disoppointed easily when you dont think that anyone matches up to this?
or perhaps you just havent met the right person-as with the right person you will both click sexually and be very good friends. I have always foudn in personal experience to start with friendship first and to see where it leads.
I.e if you go to a pub, clubbing or to a restaurant, see someone that your attracted to (and perhaps sexually attracted to) and then spark up conversation, and see if you get on with them-rather than making friends with anyone and seeing if you could be interested in them afterwards, if this makes sense :)
Its not all about looks, in much the same way as it isnt all about personality and whether you get on with them :) Unfortunately for a great reationship it takes a little of both, which can be very daunting if you dont know what your looking for :)
Also, stop worrying and be positive. It doesnt seem like you are letting opportunities pass you by, but that perhaps you are expecting too much, too soon :)
Take one step at a time, and have a good time!
Good luck x
2006-10-06 10:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are sexually attracted to jerks, for good solid evolutionary reasons. That creates sexual tension. Exciting but hard to deal with in a logical constructive way. The ones you like as friends its easier since you are not attracted, hence, no tension. Like straight people being comfortable with people of their own gender. No tension. No attraction.
2006-10-06 10:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant always get what you want !!! Just because a girl/guy isnt the hottest thing that hit the block... doesnt mean she cant be as loving as the next girl. I think you should give these people a chance. You never know what could happen. Everyone deserves a chance! Even you!
2006-10-06 10:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im am currently in the same situation as you girl...don't feel bad, it's not you it's them and don't you ever forget that. The right one will come along and don't look too hard cuz love will find you :)...Good luck!
2006-10-06 10:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you don't know what you really want as package deal from a person, or you have comment anxiety, and when the relationship gets really sirius you do something to push them away.
2006-10-06 10:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Gemini20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you possibly be finding reasons to not get involved intimatley are you choosing to fancy intimate phobes ... only ask cos i think i may have same problem and a friend asked me this
2006-10-06 10:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by sjhynes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right one obviously hasnt come along, but it will happen, i know the feeling though i often feel the same, but fate may be waiting for the right person. dont give up x
2006-10-06 10:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by corinne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is to treat the guy you do like, like the way you treat the guy you dont like. Your acting different and getting a different reaction.
2006-10-06 10:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋