2006-10-06 09:57:48 · 25 answers · asked by what goes around comes around 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
26 - by then she finishes college and can have a career.
of course, that depends on the person and situation
2006-10-06 10:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dagi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whenever she is ready. there is no best age and being older doesn't make you more mature and ready for marriage. i got married at 19 and am 21 now and still happily married. we work everything out together. he works very hard while i go to school for dental hygiene which is very demanding and we have little time for each other, but we pull thought it like a married couple should. people say to wait until you are financially stable...news flash...if you wait until then, it will never happen. money isn't everything. having a good job and a house wont make a marriage works. its the people who need to make it work and you can have nothing but each other and still be happy. i have met 18 year old more mature then some 30 year olds and even some 40 year olds. and for those people "sick" of hearing about 18 and 19 year olds getting married then maybe they should find something better to do then concern themselves with others lives or perhaps put away the little green monster of jealousy because an 18 year old can find happiness and they at their age cant.
2006-10-06 20:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A girl shouldn't get married, marriage is for women! I really think between 30-35 is probably the best age for most people. People need their 20's to grow up and fully develop their own personalities and know who they are, what is important to them and what they want out of life. When people get married too young they often don't know themselves yet and may decide after a few years of marriage that they either don't want to be married at all or that they are no longer who they were in their early 20's when they married and now their relationship doesn't make them happy or let them fulfill their true spirit.
Plus when a woman is 30-35 she is still young enough to have a couple of kids, and will be mature enough to properly parent them without still being a child herslef!
2006-10-06 17:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by mazeyday1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it totally depends on the girl. Some might be ready younger than others and vice versa. Some people live their whole lives getting ready for marriage, children ,etc. Others want a career first, or what to accomplish some great thing.
But myself for me if I only knew.. I have been married twice once really young at 18 and again at 24. I am divorced from both. I wish I would have waited till I was in my late 20's to early 30s before I took the plunge.
2006-10-06 17:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by SissyK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least over the age of 25. i'm a so tired of hearing about 18 and 19 year olds announcing their engagements. just because the law recognizes that 18 year olds are adults, doesn't mean they are. they are so immature and caught up in the idea of a wedding, that they loose sight of the fact that marriage is a life long commitment that goes beyond just saying you love someone. it is a partnership far deeper than most people realize and i think that if you are in your early 20's and late teens, you can not fully absorb that concept. if you are not mature enough to step back and think, well, we truly love each other and know we want to get married, but we are so young, so let's wait awhile to be able to experience life w/out marital obligations, then you shouldn't get married. i believe if more people had longer courtships and waited until they were older to get married, then our divorce rate wouldn't be so high. oh, and i dont' buy the argument that getting married young is better so you can start your family young. a women can get pregnant all the way 'til she's 35 without potential health risks going up, especially with today's medicine.
2006-10-06 18:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Peanuts 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is not a specific age that a woman should get married. It is more of an individual decision. I think that people should get married when they are ready to spend the rest of their life with one person. When they can emotionally, financially and mentally stand on their own two feet. Men and woman should not need each other to survive, but want to be with one another.
2006-10-06 17:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 yrs.old is the proper age to get married I think because you
already experienced life in general and you have already been on
so many dates it's redicuious and hit every bar in the city or night
club. Let's face it, you know about men and what you want.
Good Luck! Go with your heart and you shell succeed. Bye! Bye! now.
2006-10-06 17:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Spoiled brat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is a best age. as long as two people love each other enough then they should get married. i was engaged once but i made the mistake to think that since i didnt see him all of the time that he still loved me.
2006-10-06 17:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by crissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on when you feel right by doing it and when you know you have the right one. How old r u? I will be 30 in a month and getting married in Feb. 2007
2006-10-07 01:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by shelly h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is ready and over the age of 21 so it doesn't have to be a kool-aid wedding!
2006-10-06 18:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by BabyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋