he asked me out about 2 weeks ago. then he kissed me and the next day ignored me. he ignored me for about 2 weeks. today he just randomly walked up to me and started talking to me. then he kissed me goodbye. he is italian and an exchnge student. i am 15 ane he is 17 so what is up with this is he playing games or what?!
2006-10-06 09:56:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yup, thats men for you.
2006-10-06 09:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Donna B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this dude is an exchange student? From a far away land? (doesn't matter which one) He shows up, makes a little small talk, you think he's interesting/cute/hot (whatever)and you let this essential stranger kiss you?
This seems odd to me.
Are the locals so hideously disfigured that you can't bear the thought of doing the same with one of them?
Has primary education changed to the point that a casual lip-lock is acceptable? or is this just an "Italian" thing and he kisses all the girls?
Is he here to learn math and science, or to prove that yankee girls are easy?
Would you accept his behavior from one of your classmates?
If yes, they may be using you as a doormat and you might look to your self-esteem as the root of the problem, if you would issue a beating to a classmate for this kind of cavalier s**t, then why-oh-why would you accept it from him???
If he's interested on Monday, he should be interested the other 6 days of the week too.
2006-10-06 10:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
An Italian exchange student?
His customs are going to be different from yours.
People aren't really seeing that.
If you had answered him right away, he might not have ignored you.
And is he really ignoring you? Or are you not making an effort to talk to him either?
2006-10-06 10:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by godathonone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think he's playing games...i think the whole kissing thing is a custom..because my uncle is italian and everytime we see eachother he gives me a kiss on each side of my cheek....if its that kind of kiss then its no game...its courtesy...but if its a kiss on ur mouth then im sorry to say this..but he is playing u...=/
& whats up with u guys not talking 4 long periods of time???
2006-10-06 10:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Games. You play a few with him. Next time he comes up to you, act like you have never seen him before in your life then walk away. Drop that player wannabe.
2006-10-06 10:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy, but what I would do is continue talking to him for the time he is here hey if his this cute italian exchange student you better not let him go go for it before its too late and his gone back home.
2006-10-06 09:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by Pretty me :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just as nervous as u are,so keep that in mind,and just ask him to go to the pictures or for a coffee or something.If he likes you,he'll jump at the chance,if he doesn't,he wont.Either way you will at least know the truth.
2006-10-06 10:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows how to play with American girls. There are probably about 10 other girls that hes playing the same way right now. It's the get in to your panties fast plan.
2006-10-06 09:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is playing with you...and that chat and kiss was to make sure you'll still be waiting in the wings whenever he wants to bring you out to play.
You're smarter than that. DO NOT ENTERTAIN HIS CHILDISHNESS!
Time to move on!
2006-10-06 10:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by ilovetiti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not really into you. He just wants you sometimes when hes desperate and has no other girlfriends to hang out with.
2006-10-06 10:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by xoxarielle14xox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he is playing his own game. Talk to him, I knew a guy like that and sometimes think that you have a problem, so childish. talk to him and ask him wha is going on, you have to tell him what is your limitations or rules in dating. goodluck!
2006-10-06 10:05:36 · answer #11 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋