my ex-girlfriend broke up with me because of her parents being religious and forcing her and giving her no choice but to stop seeing me...her friends in her class tell me that it's obvious she still loves me but i dont really agree with this because whenever i chat 2 her she always brings up bad stuff that i have done in the past and she's always trying to make me feel bad about it by being sarcastic...but i dont understand because her friends tell me that she still loves me...what are your opinions??? do u think we still have a future??????
2006-10-06 09:48:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her friends could be trying to save your feelings or she could be trying to convince herself of reasons not to be with you, and by being rude to you, keep you away. It is best if you just let this go and be friends. If you really care about her, you don't want to cause her problems in her home. Its called respect.
2006-10-06 09:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what to say about that because if she really loved you, she would still try to conversate with you no matter what her parents say. She could be using that as an excuse, saying that her parents made her break up with you. She probably didn't want to hurt you by telling you the truth. That is what I think. I may be wrong, but all I know is if she really loved/liked you, she would be going behind her parents back and talking to you, no doubt about that.
2006-10-06 16:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by sr04model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is misunderstood.You do not have the compassion to take your relation to the next level.Sometime back we in the USA used to go and meet the parents and declare our love for what we consider a serious relationship,as a man and her parents religious it is your duty to do the proving over and over again,as many times as it takes to convince her and her parents that you are a serious young man,remember if you put yourself in their place you will try to protect your lifelong possessions from whomever do not remotely believe as they do since it creates friction ,but since you express love you have to believe as she believe to find your common ground,and you can possibly mend and have a chance at a future together ,the beginning to any future
2006-10-06 17:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by delmy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit and talk to her very clearly about her thoughts and what does she want is she with her parents or with u you.
I think may be she is trying to hurt you intentionally such that u would feel bad and forget her,in n in she really has the true affection.
even u cannot live with double mind nor she would.
rule out ur misunderstanding by talking to her directly,i wish their is a patch up if suppose nothing works out then forget her completely in and out and lookout for another relationship.
All the very best to you.
2006-10-06 17:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by Hina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on! That religion problem is there because she chose for it to be there! Its just as simple as ignoring it and its obvious she considers her religion more important than you! If she really loved you trust me she would have put everything aside for you! So just move on and try to meet new girls, I'm sure you will meet someone that will be with you no matter what! Good Luck.
2006-10-06 16:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's still into you, being sarcastic is just another form of attention seeking.
But it doesn't sound like you have a future. Move on honey x
2006-10-06 17:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by salvationcity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter what her friends say. If she's not willing to be with you, then leave her alone. Whether she won't be with you because of her family's religion, or because she said that you've done bad things in the past, you have to leave her. If she wants you she'll come back to you. Just let her friends worry about themselves, and you worry about yourself. I know it sucks, but it's not worth chasing someone who won't give you the time of day. I bet you if you leave her alone, and move on then she'll come back to you. It's just human nature to want someone who doesn't want you.
2006-10-06 16:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably still loves u,,, but as for a future together,, some religions are very strict,, so maybe the only was u too can be together is to get married
2006-10-06 16:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on f'in sucks! They say time heals all wounds, yeah, well, guess theres only one way to find out!! i just broke up with mine, and thats what drew me to your question. Of course I still love her, we were 4 years in. Ive found its best to carry on, and if she finds she still loves me, then she knows where to find me. Good luck bro! Gggrrrggghhh!!! Pisses me off!
2006-10-06 17:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Esinem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she most likely does. the reason that a lot of girls do that is to try and make things easier for us to get through. we try to convince ourselves that we dont like the person so that it is easier for us to get through. i have done it many times and she will most likely eventually come around but a suggest for you to move on and not wait for her.
2006-10-06 16:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by crissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋