my ex-girlfriend broke up with me because of her parents being religious and forcing her and giving her no choice but to stop seeing me...her friends in her class tell me that it's obvious she still loves me but i dont really agree with this because whenever i chat 2 her she always brings up bad stuff that i have done in the past and she's always trying to make me feel bad about it by being sarcastic...but i dont understand because her friends tell me that she still loves me...what are your opinions??? do u think we still have a future??????
2006-10-06 09:46:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she is having difficulty coping with trying to please her overbearing parents and doing what she wants. So she is trying to convince herself to stop loving you.
2006-10-06 09:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by amber ɹəqɯɐ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - don't look back though, look forward. Keep reminding yourself that the good times you had cannot be undone but at the same time, if it was going to work it would have done at the time. (Regardless of what obstacles were in your way.)
It is natural to lament what could have been and to still have feelings linger. In a way getting over a relationship is a bit like a mini-addiction and for a while you will probably feel drawn to her like a magnet. All this will pass though so in the mean time get out as much as you can with your mates, stop asking for her mates opinions and do the best you can to hold your head up high and move on.
You are young - there are many adventures in your future and although it is probably aching like hell just now and the last thing on your mind just now, I promise you that you will look back on this time one day and be glad that it ended now because if it hadn't you would not have met your next partner or done another fab thing etc.
Accept her decision - whatever the reasons and just take the good and the bad in life in the same hand.
Best of luck.
2006-10-06 16:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she could go back to you just to spite her parents. She sounds like a cold person, but at the same time, she could be using that to help her get through not being with you. Girls tend to tell thier girfriends the truth. Iwould say give her the space she wants and needs, and then if she still loves you , she will come back. youshould not have to wait around to find out. You could be missing out on something better...
2006-10-06 16:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by A H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible she still likes you but do you really think that her parents have changed their minds about the whole thing.
Sounds like a lose, lose situation. Kind of a danged if you do danged if you don't.
Sometimes girls pick on the guys they like, so it is possible or maybe she is but doesn't want you to know, because of the whole parent thing.
I would have to say talk to her.
2006-10-06 16:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little of both....
If he parents FORCED her, she must have or have HAD feelings
AND maybe since you two have been apart she has been able to anylze your realtionship better.........maybe she now sees things diffrently at a distance. Also, maybe she somewhat resents things that might have done to her (that her parents also saw) that made her parents see that you werent the bset guy for her.
2006-10-06 16:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, drop it. If she still loved you, the relationship would continue in secret. Your friends are either trying to make you feel better, or felt more comfortable when you two were together.
2006-10-06 16:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents are controling her life. Its like she wants to love you but cant. because if she starts to love you again... Her parents will be more controling of her. ect.... Take time, give her some space. Move on to someone new.. Untill she is free of her parents religious chock!
2006-10-06 16:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you do.. if you listen to what she is saying and try to change that about yourself and show her that you have changed... but i think that she does have feelings thats why she still talks to you. and maybe she is trying to convince herself that you didnt treat her the way she wanted and try to stop loving you..
but i cant really tell you whats going on in her head.. so just listen carefully to what she is telling you!!
good luck!
2006-10-06 16:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Just ME! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y don't u just ask her ur self instead of asking us? think aobut it. How wud we no???? we're compleate strangers 2 u and u probably no her friends better than we do, so stop killin ur feelings and go rite up to her and ask her if it's bugging u so much. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-10-06 16:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would tell u, i dont think there is a future,cos off the family etc,why dont u move on find a new g/f x
2006-10-06 16:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no once the parents get involved it means it is best to move on!
if she is from a strict family, look elsewear it will get better, dont let yourself get bummed out. good luck
2006-10-06 16:52:33 · answer #11 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋