I discovered them by accident, my friend nor my girlfriend know that I know, I haven’t said a word to anyone, how should I handle this as I go forward?
2006-10-06 09:43:42 · 29 answers · asked by namvet68 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop them both and give no explanation. If however they ask why you don't talk anymore tell them you don't deal with hypocrites and whores. Trust they've both got it coming to them. Even if they hook up he will never trust her and she will never hold him.
2006-10-06 09:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let them go. Because since you didn't bust them out in the act, they are going to deny and lie. Regardless of what you saw. So don't go off. Just let them both go. And the thing is do you want to lose a friend and a girlfriend? If neither of them or worth a damn, then send them packing. But as far as who to keep on the team if you must choose, I would choose the person that has been there for you the most. But that would be hard because they both betrayed you. I would let them have it and move on personally. Don't let them get you put behind no jail cell, it ain't worth it.
2006-10-06 16:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to let them both know that you know. Or you would find it harder and harder to go through your day normally. That will always be on your mind. But your hesitation may mean that you love your girlfriend and feel that if you tell her she may leave you and you are not ready to face that yet.
2006-10-06 16:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her and tell her why, then leave it at that dont even allow them to explain. Just go on with your life minus 2 people you though was your friends.
2006-10-06 16:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by thealternativemind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you had to see that, but you need to look for love someplace else. She obviously does not respect you or care for you. As far as your friend goes .... I'd hate to meet up with any of your enemies if this is how your friends are.
2006-10-06 16:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big red firetruck!!! They are not your friend obviously. Let them know now and move on. Keep the friendship if it's worth it but let the games end here.
2006-10-06 16:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur girl friend or your girlfriend........if u r or were going out with her then that's considered cheating...And she obviously isn't worth it cos she shud be happy with 1 relationship. If she can't respect u and ur relationship then there is no point cos u deserve better!!!!!!! Good Luck!
2006-10-06 16:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite them both to your place at the same time, say for a drinking party! then after a couple shots, start playing strip poker and see where it leads...chances are your girl will be more than willing. then afterwards, toss her out butt naked!
2006-10-06 16:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by City slicker 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how do you want to handle it. seems to me, she is not worth thinking about. she cheated on you. i would let them know, i know, and then tell them good-bye and good luck. no future there. your friend is not a true friend either. with friends like that, who needs enimies. cut them both loose. you deserve better.
2006-10-06 16:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by debo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in bed with them
2006-10-06 16:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by Pauline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋