I'd really like to get with this Asian girl I know but I'm afraid of what my parents will say or do. They've always been they type that say that people should "stick to their own kind." I woulnd't be afraid of what they'd say to me. I'm strong and could take it. But what if I wanted to take her home one day? I'm afraid they might hurt her feelings or such. What should I do?
2006-10-06 09:36:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My family are also the same way, I married a mexican man and I am white. We have been together 12 years. Go with your heart your family needs to stop being so ignorant.
2006-10-06 10:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have a SERIOUS conversation with your parents.
Ask them why they are such racist and what are their reasons to hate asians.
Tell them that you think that the world would be better if people respected others races like asians.
Trust me, your parents will feel like they have to agree with you and it will help to change their thoughs.
Anyway, just don't give up of the asian girl, if you really like her, so be happy with that babe!
2006-10-06 10:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by keen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine i'd commence courting her, assuming she has mutual thoughts for you. If issues progression favorably and also you want your acquaintances to fulfill her in some unspecified time sooner or later, in simple terms tell them the way you sense about her yet that you've some concerns about how they're going to manage her. If she's an exceedingly magnificent gal, and maximum asian women are, i'm particular your moms and dads will be fairly inspired and could probable warmth as a lot as her immediately in any respect. yet go that bridge once you come back to it. immediately you've were given to work out if she'll bypass out with you. It type of sounds like she will be in a position to. good luck.
2016-12-04 08:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents have any class AT ALL they would not be rude to the girl to her face. They would just wait to talk about her after she leaves. Who knows, this girl could be just the person to make them change their minds about other races. Try bringing her over as a study buddy, somebody you have been assigned to do a project with, or something like that, and see how their reaction is to her.
2006-10-06 09:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You will have to become strong if you reach the point of taking her home but preface that visit with a discussion of the rules with your parents about what you would expect them out of courtesy to do...makes for a mature approach.
2006-10-06 09:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by mac5doc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats your life, if you think thats a true love then go,remember that not your parents will be to live in such marriage you
2006-10-08 18:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by mario t. reoyan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
son listen to your parents. lay your hand off that asian girl
2006-10-08 15:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents are similar to yours
2006-10-07 13:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Miss T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate your parents. :'(
2006-10-10 00:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋