And I'm really nervous. I'm not sure if the guys will like me or if I will like him.We've been talking o the phone and he's so nice and everything , but I'm nervous I feel like a teenager.(lol) One of my concerns is I am thick I'm mean hips, Butt, The whole nine yards and I told him that And he was like cool, but I'm like scared I might be to thick for him. He may even consider me fat. I don't know what to do I'm so scared Help..........Serious answers forreal.
2006-10-06 09:33:17 · 17 answers · asked by tlnay025 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All of your answers are awesome and one made me laugh. But you gusy have made me feel so much better...Sorry so sappy(lol)
2006-10-06 09:44:42 · update #1
Well not sure how many people will read this that posted a reply but here goes. The date was not good......He liked me but i didn't like him he acted a little strange.....And to top it off he asked me to marry him..On the first date this is so weird and he was forreal.......To weird for me I'll just be single......This sucks are there any good men around that are sane? (lol)
2006-10-09 09:15:58 · update #2
Calm down, you might not even like him, ever thought about that? So, what if he doesn't like you, why do you care? you don't really even know him and there are more guys than not that like their girls thick. My husband is always telling me I need to gain weigh, so I can be thick like he likes his women!!! You go Girl, you're gonna have fun.
2006-10-06 09:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, don't go on the defense, go on the offense. Show him tonight that you are the catch and he has to measure up to you. Don't be stuck up or rude about it but let him know you are there to have a good time and you do not have any worries or pressures.
Tell him what you are into and listen to him when he talks. Watch for things like holding doors for you and pulling out chairs to see if he is a gentleman.
Show self confidence above everything and you will be fine.
Let me know how it goes!!!
2006-10-06 16:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by buffman316 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't let a little weight get in the way of happiness. Some guys like a little meat with their potatoes. I for one do. Those skinny girls are nice ,but, there is just not enough to love on.
My wife sees me looking at a skinny girl and asks me what has she got that I haven't got twice as much of? And you know what, she's right.
Put on your best personality and go for it. A good personality makes a woman twice as good looking.
2006-10-06 16:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by Cal 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dress like the thought that you are thick didn't even cross your mind. Hold yourself well, flirt, laugh a lot. Relax, god made you who you are, have fun and don't let him think for a moment that your are emberassed for yourself, or that your are self conscious of your weight. Men like humble confidence. Let your personality shine through without regard to your imperfect form(you may think its imperfect, but you are great the way you are!)
2006-10-06 16:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Life is crappy when you worry about what other people think of you, and it is hard, I know, but no matter what you need to focus on showing him who you are and trying to get to know who he really is. You told him you are a little thick, if he didn't believe you or something he is a idiot anyway. If he is the shallow type, you don't want him anyway.
You will drive yourself nuts worrying about what he thinks of you. Trust me! Just try and enjoy the evening and try and learn about him. Be proud of the person he gets to learn about tonight.
2006-10-06 16:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by tightlies 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you maybe a little chubby so you probably have some heavy hangers so be sure to wear something low cut and show him those jugs. No man can resist some nice ta tas
2006-10-06 16:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sing Y 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know what you are going through! My fiance this a blind date. lol I met him on myspace. I was terrified. If he is as nice as he seems, it won't matter. He should be with you for you, not your waist size.
2006-10-06 16:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by JENNIFER G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress...there will either be a "spark" or not...and don't automaticly assume that it's your hips/thighs, because sometimes, even if someone is physically attractive to you, the spark still isn't there.
Good luck!
2006-10-06 16:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be ya' "confidant" self!!!
Obviously theres an attraction...Or there wouldn't be a date!!!
REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES!!!
Break a leg!!!
Hope it goes better than ones I've been on lately!!!
2006-10-06 16:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't know him, so you only have his assurances to go by...he may actually be into women that are a little more rounded, like many men are. just be yourself and have the best time you can, good luck!
2006-10-06 16:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by City slicker 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋