2006-10-06 09:31:33 · 27 answers · asked by Girly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but if you or your partner become pregnant what will happens?marry, leave the relationship?
2006-10-06 09:58:57 · update #1
Yes I do think you should wait, I am waiting. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we are planning on getting married within the next year and I'm still a virgin. There is more to a relationship than sex. God created sex for a husband and wife. Sex is a sin if it is done outside of marriage. And, if you aren't the religious type well, my friends have had sex with their guys and they always break up. And, then they come to me and say why are you and your man so happy, why do you hardly ever fight, what do you do different than we do? I DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM! He wants me for me and not my body! Please wait!
2006-10-06 09:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely....why? u might ask. well i'll tell ya. sex today is just as common and unimportant to most ppl as going out to buy groceries. in today's society, sex sells. if u really take the time to notice, almost every commercial u see and every ad u can find has something to do with sex. at either a conscious or subconcious level. that being said. sex is not held sacred anymore like it was intended to be. having sex before marriage can lessen a relationship a great deal. it also can lead to a higher risk of either one of u commiting adultery, and u may even end up a single parent. it's because there needs to be emotional and spiritual attatchment and growth before u can interact physically. in essence having sex right away with boyfriend/girlfriend steals away from the emotional and spiritual aspects of a TRUE relationship. besides it's the best gift u can give to the one u love (and marry!!!). practicing monogomy can do a few more things for u. numeral uno, it will lower ur chance for STD'S by an extreme measure, and for another there will be a greater respect in a realationship and it can last indefinately. well i can keep going but these are just a few things i came up with. if u want more info, or more detailed info, just contact me via this website.
2006-10-06 09:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for everyone. But how our society is surrounded by sexual overtones in the media and our peers, it is difficult. If that is your personal mantra to have than that is great! Because sex is aight, but let's face it, men and women aren't going anywhere. But at the same token there are people that are functioning perfectly fine with having sex before marriage. The thing about it is just protecting yourself. That is also a tie into religion as well as cultural. I can't say yes or no because I had sex early in life and I am not married. But if you feel that you should wait than that is what you should do.
2006-10-06 09:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If most young people were getting married around 18 years of age, then probably the right answer would be that they should wait until they get married.
But when people are getting married for the first time around 30 years of age, then waiting for sex this long is neither practical nor desirable in terms of mental and emotional health.
2006-10-06 09:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ... People should have sex before marriage .. So the mistake that u make earlier could not be made with the person u love and are married to.. I mean the different positon of having sex, also it can bring in more excitement with more experiments.
2006-10-06 09:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Kafflick mother always said to wait. Then after three sisters had each had 3 divorces, the old lady said whatever you do - try it out first. She decided she would no longer be kafflick as their ban on sex ended up being pretty stupid. Oh Kafflick is Catholic for those of us who have lapsed.
2006-10-06 09:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. most of the guys want to marry a virgin.
according to psychology, sex before marriage not a good idea for ur mental.
another research said, when u have sex before marriage, u cannot enjoying 100% after ur marriage.
2006-10-06 09:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a personal decision each person needs to make based on their own beliefs.
I know that I would never sign a contract to eat at the same restaurant for the rest of my life without at least trying some of their food first, though!
2006-10-06 09:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the moral thing to do. I did and I was 28 when I got married. Well worth the wait.
2006-10-06 09:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
intercourse could be had while a man or woman is waiting. Marriage is particularly irrelevant. A 12 year previous isn't waiting, ext...yet an grownup could have intercourse as they elect. waiting until marriage is greater of a spiritual hangup than a query of ethical or ethical status.
2016-10-18 22:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by montesi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋