2006-10-06 09:01:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Well, I am 14. I have had sex at 14. If you feel that you really love this guy, and you are sure that you could see yourself going with this person, and you are sure that you want to...then yes. But remember, once your virginity is gone, it is gone forever..You have to know that there might be another guy down the road..I don't think you are ready because if you were you wouldn't be asking people. I don't even think I was ready. Once you have done it, you have lost all your innocence. So just really think about it before you do.
2006-10-06 10:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The law in most countries sets a minimum age for "consensual" sex, i.e. when both partners agree to do it. In most countries, this is either 16 or18 years, but some countries may have either lower or higher ages set, and sometimes different ages for males and females. If you have sex before that age, and you are found out, the older partner can be sent to jail for several years. Would you really want that to happen? If you love each other, it's worth waiting until at least you don't have THAT worry on top of all the others associated with the first sexual encounter !
2006-10-06 16:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by millowner87 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! You are way too young to have sex with anyone. You are not mature enough yet to have sex honey. If you were you wouldnt have posted this question. Sorry. I am giving my honest opinion. I wouldnt recommend you having sex at this young age. You have so much growing up to do. Why worry about sex for? Just enjoy being 14 as long as you can, because once you have sex with someone, everything changes. everything.
2006-10-06 16:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The answer is no. Please go to an adult that u can trust if u do not want to tell parents or guardian. Even if u cannot talk to an adult, tell someone a close friend. Any adult who want to have sex with a minor is not a good person no matter what. If its someone u know and even if they r 18, they should wait until u r older b/c they should. I know it may be hard to hear but waiting until you r older is better and u will understand when u r.
2006-10-06 16:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude i'm 14 and i have a boyfriend and i'm not going to have sex. i'm going to wait until i'm 18 or 17. you just got problems if you want to have sex at 14.
2006-10-06 16:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
o.0 Um. How about no. Because I don't think you can support the baby financially or emotionally if you get pregnant. Plus, the guy might just abandon you, and you're off on your own. What would your parents think? Your friends? ... That would be degrading yourself...
2006-10-06 16:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh how about no? Do you want to be pregnant at 14?
2006-10-06 16:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by cookiedough. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do it honey. he could go to jail, and u dont wanna regret ur decisions u make now, whne ur just wanting to start ur life. u wont be able to go out, u would have to stay with ur baby if u get pregnant. so just dont. i know that by posting this, u wanted other ppls opinion. but with the other feedback, i think u could make ur own decision now.
2006-10-06 16:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by intherain; 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first love was 14 when she first had sex. If you're ready, you're ready. If you're not, hold off.
2006-10-06 16:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, its illegal and you'll deeply regret it....you still need to be a kid and live your life before you have sex- 'specally with a grown man
good luck
2006-10-06 16:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by swimfan8856 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋