OK so i been dating my gf for 3 months and well i really fell in love with her no other girl has ever made me feel like this
but when i started dating her i knew she dated this guy for 1year and 8 months and she lost her virginity with him
and well she still likes this guy they been talking alot lately and he wants her back but my gf keeps saying she cant cause she doesnt want to hurt me
In my opinion he only wants sex thats why he wants her back cause in some messages he writes how he hasnt done sex in the longest
WAt should i do? should i break up with her? should i wait for her to break up with me?
P.S
she doenst know i know all this but I read some of the messages they send each other and well it sucks
2006-10-06 08:46:18 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sucks. You should break up with her, before she hurts you even more and worse, the sooner the better, she sounds like shes still likes the other dude, and you don't want her to be with you out of pity right. Good luck.
2006-10-06 08:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by jaylee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about this girl you need to stop reading her messages.
Honesty really is the best policy. It sounds to me like you want to keep this
relationship going so be her best friend and let her tell you how she feels.
People really like to be treated with respect and I think that she will realize
that you are the better boyfriend. If it works out it was meant to. If it doesn't
then you need to move on.
2006-10-06 08:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by sunnymommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, respect privacy, it's not cool you are reading her messages.
Second, there is nothing to think about. Confront her and be decisive. Even though you are falling for this girl, you dont derserve this. Avoid any drama, let them be.
Good luck.
2006-10-06 08:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by resiste_lfc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the only reason she wont get with him is because you will be hurt? THIS tells me she may still WANT to be with him ...she just doesnt want to hurt you..I think she she still has feelings for him ....You need to either be very careful...or BOUNCE
2006-10-06 08:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should break up with her. i mean she wants the other guy she's not a good gf shes probably cheating on you by now. so yea braek up with her.
2006-10-06 13:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her...you'll be happier and you shouldn't have to worry about this stuff!...relationships are supposed to make you HAPPY!
2006-10-06 08:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Katelyn P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her she is sneaky you never know she might be having sex with him again LEAVE HER ALONE.
2006-10-06 08:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by mrsp27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shoould dump her. and just say forget about me and go **** that other guy
2006-10-06 08:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by serina p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should break up with her.
2006-10-06 08:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break NOW
2006-10-06 08:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by d.x x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋