my bf and i had been talking about having sex for the first time, but i wasn't ready since we've only been toghther for about 2.5 months. now, we don't even discuss it anymore. how will i be able to tell when he wants to do it?
2006-10-06 08:44:07 · 11 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you both feel for it.
2006-10-06 08:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is the most important thing in a relationship. That's GREAT that he hasn't brought it up- that means that he respects you, is not pressuring you, and is probably waiting for you to give him the green light. I'm sure he wants to make love to you.. he just doesn't want you to feel pressured.
Personally, YOU will know if you're ready just by how comfortable you are around him, and how your relationship is. If you want it, you want it just make sure that you use protection
Talk to him about this. If you can't talk about this stuff, then it's not a good relationship.
2006-10-06 15:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It either means that he cares for you and he is waiting for you to be ready or that he might not be interested anymore. I think you guys should give a lot more time before you guys make that move. When the moment is there you will know. Don't forget the protection you don't know who he's been with.
2006-10-06 15:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you're both ready after you put on each others wedding ring and legally say "I do" That is when God says you're ready. Good advice to follow. My husband and I both waited, and we couldn't be more happy about it. And we have been married for 3 years, And we are both 24.
2006-10-06 15:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Snow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all guys want to no matter what so just worry about if your ready no matter what he tells you hes willing at anytime and dont worry about it that much the first time is weird might sound funny but is true youll see after awhile no matter who your having sex with the first time is always weird no matter how many times you have had sex.
2006-10-06 15:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by evangomez@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a safe bet he wants to do it. I wouldnt spend a lot of time wondering about that. You can bet the farm that he wants to.
Seems like you are ready too, so go find him and get on with it.
2006-10-06 15:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FYI...it's not a big deal...I mean theres a hype...but sex isn't a HUGE deal...unless you are held down spiritually... happiness, i believe is the ultimate goal in life...as long as you use protection and are safe about it I csee sex as being a growing experience!
2006-10-06 15:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Katelyn P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fyi guys are always ready for action. and guys love it when woman make the first move to it makes them feel wanted just like woman. believe me i think he will be more that willing to do it as long as u take acare of yurself down there.
2006-10-06 15:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not discussing it anymore because he's already screwing someone else. See what happens when you hold out too long. better luck next time.
2006-10-06 15:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a guy. Strip him and star to f u c k
2006-10-06 15:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋