My family has so many issues...........I rather just stop going around them I get soooo stressed out whenever I have to be around them. My husbands family is so great. I wish my family had less drama. But they are who they are and life is about choices and they seem to ALWAYS make the wrong choice.
I feel bad cause the always need me................but I don't want/need them in my life.
2006-10-06 08:42:48 · 13 answers · asked by v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your family is all you have, i wouldnt say cut them off completely but keep your distance and at the same time keep in touch by calling and checking on them from time to time. You never know when you are gonna need them.
2006-10-06 09:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mizz.Sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are your family whatever they do. Just because you choose not to make the same mistakes or choices they do shouldn't be a reason to judge them and kick them out of your life. YES you do have the right too. It is your choice but I think you would lose out allot more in the long run. Family is always family, your husbands family will most likely be gone when he is too. A marriage isn't always forever!
2006-10-06 08:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-07 12:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I defiantly understand why your teen is performing like that i replaced into like that once and to be truthful with you i'm like that now. adolescents locate being around their relatives is uninteresting its stressful is dumb. the reason in the back of it is they constantly wanna be around pals and constantly wanna be out of the residing house. yet another reason could be because of the fact perhaps she isn't connecting nicely and basically does not experience like being around relatives. Puberty does take a huge area interior the priority. U can get rid of this subject by doing issues relaxing. Like extra relatives holidays and relatives journeys it quite is a 2 time out besides the indisputable fact that it is going to deliver you adult men lots closer. yet differently is to take them out to dinner now and back and show them how lots relaxing the relatives could be. And now and back take them to places they wanna pass like perhaps procuring and arcades basically bear in mind the place ever you're taking one newborn you may take the completed relatives. Which kinda lead them to understand that they cant pass everywhere without the relatives. I assure you this could paintings. solid success !
2016-10-15 22:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say they need you?Does this statement make you feel needed, or used? because there is a different answer for both. If its needed you are feeding your ego, if used tell them you will not allow yourself to be used anymore and to look else ware for their solutions
2006-10-06 08:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut them out of your life - if you want too, BUT don't go back to them when YOU want something. That is not fair. Once out - that is it!
2006-10-06 08:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's not okay unless they are the Manson family.
2006-10-06 08:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by GT Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mary, don't dis your family.
2006-10-06 08:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about just talking once a month and thats way its less intrusive...
2006-10-06 08:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
set boundaries with them but don't divorce them completely.
the least is that they make you appreciate your in-laws.
2006-10-06 08:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by freebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋