My Frend's biggest problem right now.. is he has a 16 year old cousin.. he's really sweet and stuff.. but a year or less ago.. he did something to her which she can't forget.. he touched her boobs while she was asleep and he doesn't know that she knows.. she doesn't know how to solve this and she doesn't want to cause big family problems so she is silent for now.. but i don't think that's how she should stay.. what would you do in her place?
2006-10-06 08:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by Kissss_My_Asss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I forgot to add.. He did it more than once ! And she doesn't want to cause family problems so better ideas needed =/
2006-10-06 08:47:09 · update #1
They are really close cousins..because his dad is her dad's brother.. how can they not see each other? that is not the solution i would advice to my best frend =/
2006-10-06 08:55:44 · update #2
I think it is a little sick and perverted, but what she needs to do instead of blowing it up and telling everyone about it is confront him about it, tell him that it's unacceptable and that if it happens again that he will have broken fingers. Then if it happens again, tell the family.
2006-10-06 08:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. FairyLove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell her not to keep her eyes closed when he do it again. The biggest thing is, if she will keep her eyes closed a day will come when she too will get aroused and than anything could happen.
2. Tell her to open her eyes when he do it again and act like she is shocked...........than start cyring !!! Tell her to make sure to take her mom into the room and talk with her about something ELSE and keep this guy guessing that she has comlained !! LOL
3. Talking with her cousin silently will not do any good because it will give a platform to her cousin to convince her.
2006-10-07 02:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
less than a year ago...? well...just tell your friend to avoid her cousin..dont start a conversation before he started it..or maybe if he started it,it should a word 'sorry'...dont let a man take advantage on you eventhough he is a cousin or not....if she dont want to cause a big problem...,then stay protected so that it wont be happening again ok....?
2006-10-06 15:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by yuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's all he did, then she needs to tell him not to do it again. And then be done with it.
2006-10-06 15:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋