To go through your cell phone? If you have a problem with them doing this, is it because you have something to hide, or just want your privacy? For me, I have nothing to hide, but it's more a matter of privacy. Especially text messages, as my friends always text me about their problems and issues. My bf thinks it's because I have something to hide from him. He and I are having a lot of issues at the moment, so maybe it's just him that has the attitude. Or do other people feel the same way? Do you feel like it's your right to go through their cell phone...like text messages, phone book, call log, etc.?
2006-10-06 08:21:31 · 15 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course not. My man has a problem with doing that too. I told him that whether he like it or not, he couldn't go through my phone and I locked it with a password only I know to access use of the phone.
2006-10-06 08:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not right to look through someones cell phone. It's not a matter of trying to hide anything, it's a matter of respecting ones privacy. To me a cell phone is private and unless the owner says its o.k. to look, you shouldn't. It's like reading a persons diary or journal.
2006-10-06 15:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u don't want ur bf 2 go through ur phone b/c u want ur privacy, then u should tell him. I know how it is when someone says that ur trying 2 hide something when ur not. I would let my bf go thru my txt msgs, but I have guy friends who have problems with their gfs and I don't want him 2 think its me. It's how u feel, and what makes u comfortable.
2006-10-06 15:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by bronco_cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't have a problem with my man looking through my phone, just as he doesn't with me doing the same.
Although, I think it's a matter of trust. Since we both don't have any trust problems or anything of that nature, we never really look at eachother phone except to get a phone number that we lost.
2006-10-06 15:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that its ur right to privacy and he should turst u enough to know that ur not hiding anything me and my bf had the same problem he was the jealous type
2006-10-06 15:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by shaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously the bf doesnt trust u.. Mine was the same way. He always thought i was texting some other guy. I did delete all my texts before i would get home everyday just so we wouldnt fight about it. i know what u are saying.. men have crazy minds and they all think alike about us women
2006-10-06 15:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let anyone look through my phone not because I doing anything but because it's mine and you should ask pick his phone and go through it without asking and see what he does
2006-10-06 15:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Drea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man starts talking that way it means either that he's doing something and wants to make sure you are not or he just wants to control your every move because he's doing something and wants to make sure you are not. They tend to judge thier women based on their own actions.
2006-10-06 15:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its your right if you think they are cheating on you. Especially if your having sex with them without a condom and thinking your the only one. Rarely do people come out and tell you their doing you wrong so if you dont snoop how else are you to find out ? Wait until it comes out by itself and waste god knows how much more time with a loser ?
2006-10-06 15:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! what i do in my spare time is my own bussiness! i mean if he dosent trust you enough to believe you when you tell him that u have nothing to hide then you might want to start lookin 4 a new bf....
2006-10-06 15:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by confused_mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋