Why is it?????

Question

Okay, so I've asked some previous questions about this reallllly cute guy I like. I found out that last year he has a huuuge crush on the prettiest girl in school. I was crying that whole night. Then, at schoo, whenever I saw or thought about him(which is a lottt) my eyes teared up. How can I get over him? What if I become really obsessed? Is it because I'm ugly? Seriously, is it? http://www.myspace.com/thekatesteinberg -please look at all the pictures. The first one is fancy. But I'm really afraid. I want him to like me and I worry that he doesn't like me becase I'm fat or ugly or something. I mean, he isn't popular or anything. It's not like he's too good for me!
Thanks:(

Is he flirting?
Like, our tables at school are in rows, and if I need to pass him, he leans back in his chair so I have to go around him.
Also, Whenever I try to talk to my friend who's next to him, we lean our heads back to talk, and he does too so we cant see eachother. He does it all the time. It sooo funny!

Answer 1

No, you're not ugly or fat at all...you're quite cute infact. I know this sucks now, but don't worry, some guys are like that....you'll find someone else.

Answer 2

Your Most Likly Just Not The Right Girl At The Moment. But If You Like Him As Much As You Say You Do, Be Brave And Straight Out Ask Him To Go Somewhere With You And Hang Out. If He Says No, Feel Bad For A Second But Then Find Another Guy You Might Have Stuff In Common With And See What He's Doing Saturday Night!

Answer 3

Don't get really obsessed over a guy you've never really had a relationship with before, or you don't even know he likes you. There's no point in getting sad over something you can't undo (unless you take the 'prettiest girl in school' out of the picture FOR GOOD >.<.....but that's bad, so don't do it ^_^''). YOU ARE NOT FAT OR UGLY, as I answered in your last question. Please don't think that!!!! >o< Personally, I think you're very beautiful and pretty. And I ain't just saying that. Wait, no...I KNOW you're beautiful and pretty. And if he thinks you're not, he needs to get his eyes checked. But then again, don't get too paranoid about him, because one of the worst things to do is to assume too much. Just go for it, ask him before that prettiest girl in the school does!!! GO, go go!!!! >.<

Answer 4

Are you kidding? You look "reallllly cute" yourself! If he doesn't like you, that's his loss. But I think it is entirely possible he's shy because he thinks you are too attractive for him. Or maybe he has a girlfriend. If you stop waiting around and go talk to him, you might find out some important information (like maybe he likes you back, or maybe you are not compatible with him, etc). Now, then, if that does not work, then you should consider dating other people. I'd bet that a girl like you has at least three admirers on campus that are just too shy to walk up and ask you out! Good luck!

Answer 5

First off, you are a very attractive lady. Secondly, grow a backbone and your confidence. Doesn't he know what he's missing??! You just always expect the best and never settle for anything less. Make this your motto and say it to yourself every time you look in the mirror. When you say it enough, you will believe it. Don't be afraid to just walk up to him and say hello. He is probably just as shy or more, than you are. Mkae sure that he notices you and what better way than to walk up to him directly and say something. If you don't catch his eye with your outer beauty, then he is blind or gay.PS I pressed your red button too much!! HA> Good luck to ya!!! GaryT

Answer 6

I am not trying to hit on you or be a perv but you are very cute. You had it right when you said that he is not too good for you. I would say that you just ignore him and act like he doesnt exsist, maybe he will come around. There are many reasons why he may not like you, but there are alot of fish in the sea, so pull in your net and throw it out again, you might be surprised and what you catch next.

Answer 7

honer, first i gotta say- u r really, really pretty. and i thought at first he really didnt like u, but the added bit...maybe he does. who told u he liked the most popular girl in skool? was it a neutral party, or was it someone who doesnt like you, or a 'friend'? i say, give this guy a chance, keep trying. everyguy likes the hottest girl in skool at least a bit. i mean, shes the freakin hottest girl in skool. but just keep trying, and hopefully everything will work out, just remember that it may take a while, so dont get dicouraged. good luck, actually i wish u more than good luck, i wish u the most luck i should wish u. not that u need it ;)

lots of luv,
ezza

Answer 8

Insecure, whiny, worried, scared girls who cry all night if a boy doesn't like them and ask strangers to tell them they're ok looking aren't attractive. It has nothing to do with your looks- it's your lack of self-esteem and confidence that's going to drive people away.
Stop thinking so much about getting boys to like you and get yourself some hobbies. Do more with your life than mess around on myspace and your confidence will increase.

Answer 9

Hon, you're cute. But there is no explaining why one person is attracted to another--it's chemistry or something. It's not always about looks, so look into some guys hearts, and you'll find yourself a BF that will return your admiration.
Good luck.

Answer 10

Of course he's flirting. He's feeling you just like your feeling him. When I was in high school there was a guy with a mushroom top who was really popular. Since my locker was next to his, every time I came down the hallway, he'd throw himself onto a locker and scream like I was ugly or going to attack him. When I got older I found that he just liked me and didn't know how to say it. I missed my chance to put it on him. Dont miss yours........