i fell in love over this summer with a seventeen year old man... i'm fifteen, by the way. He was so sweet and he asked me out. I felt so happy for the first time in two years. But then i started talking to girls who have dated him... all of them, from the same summer program i am in. I tested him to see if he really loved me... turns out, he broke up with me. When he texted my friend a week ago, he raped a girl and was proud to be called a parent. And just yesterday, he called me again and asked if i could go on a date with him. See, i love him... but i hate him as well for keeping everything from me. What should i do?
2006-10-06 08:07:52 · 22 answers · asked by Aurora_Rose_Maree 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
CHEATER??? He's a RAPIST!
RUN....RUN...RUN....
You know this shouldn't even be a question in your mind. The answer is obvious and NO!
MOM COME QUIICK! Your baby has her back to an oncoming train, walking down the track, and being deaf and blind, can't see the train is going to kill her. Quick SHOW UP!
2006-10-06 08:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, I think you might be in love with the person you think he is, or that you want him to be. That doesn't mean that is truely the person that he is. I don't know that you can call a 17 year old a man....I can see why you'd be mad that he didn't tell you everything, but really, shouldn't you be a little more concerned that he raped someone? Is that the kind of person you really love? Are you ready to be a step-mom at 15? I remember 15, a very confusing time, things can go very wrong, I speak from experience. I'd leave this one alone. Trust me, there will be so many more boys to come your way, don't waste any more time with this one.
2006-10-06 15:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by BettyBoop 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, a 17 year old is a boy, not a man. Secondly, a real man would not treat women that way.
He is only interested in having sex with you. He doesn't care if you love him or not. He will tell you what you want to hear just to keep you around. Judge him not by what he says but by what he does:
He is a cheater, a player, a rapist, a deadbeat father and a loser.
Be thankful you found out before something terrible happened to you. Don't fall for someone who doesn't love and respect you. Love hurts but eventually you will find the right guy and it will all have been worth it.
2006-10-06 15:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First, 17 is not a man.
Second, he's going through the roster of girls at your summer program it seems. Why would you want to be just another one of them?
Third, he RAPED a girl? Ooo, yeah, I'd want to be with him (SARCASM)!!
Fourth, he's got a baby mama now and you don't want to mess with THAT situation.
Fifth,,, he's still calling you after all of this? Shows complete stupidity on his part. A "man" with that much on his plate would chill for a bit if he was smart.
Tell him not to call you, stay away from him, and you'll get over him. You are only 15, and you WILL find someone who knows that they want you...
Good Luck honey!
2006-10-06 15:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be so blunt, but this is what you should do: Grow up, stop calling this boy a man, never talk to him again and find a healthy relationship. if you continue to find yourself in this type of unhealthy relationship go get counseling to try and find out why. if he has truly "raped" a girl as you say then you should never speak to him again.. let alone all of the other qualities you have mentioned.. if you want to be in a mature relationship then it's time you stopped acting like a little girl. but i would suggest avoiding that kind of relationship all together and just have fun with non-serious relationships because you are JUST 15!!
2006-10-06 15:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by pip 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell this guy: not only no...but a whole world of no! If he has to rape a woman, he is NOT a man. You are only 15...you have an entire lifetime of love ahead of you. Dont waste your time with this guy...chances are he is just trying to get you into bed. There are much better options for you out there.
2006-10-07 03:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I don't know how you can say you "love" a guy you find out has been sampling all the girls in your programme, and who is said to be a rapist. You may find him physically attractive, and he may be very charming (he must be, if he has sampled all the girls), but hey--he's really been the rounds--how can you think he's specially interested in You? You'd be just another notch on his gun. Find someone else who will be interested in you as a person, not a trophy. This guy isn't even your friend, if he lies to you.
2006-10-06 15:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by anna 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he raped some1 then ew stay away from him he could b dangerous and im sure u dont want to get hurt wait for the right person to come along he probally just gonna use u if u go back out with him
2006-10-06 15:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey girl,
you might say taht you love him at the moment,
but just realize that thas a rush in your brain, and its not a real love or anything like that,
turn him down, even though it sounds like you dont wanna do it, but its gonna boost your confidence in the long run, and meanwhile you'lll look back at this years later, and remember what a brave and wise decision you've made
~KZ
2006-10-06 15:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kayzee 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away!! You're young, you have plenty of time to screw up your life...don't start so early with losers like this.
When i was your age i had the same problem with falling in love with asshole criminals, and beleive me, i paid for it..its not worth it and you'll look back in 10 years and really regret it!
2006-10-06 15:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jane D 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋