I know I'd feel a whole lot better about him having a girlfriend if I had a man in my life. I sure as hell don't want my ex back. I'm so jealous that he just picked up and moved on so easily. I'm out there... I'm looking... I want to get to that next step in my life!
2006-10-06 07:42:29 · 28 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sux that he has moved on so fast, but that just goes to show how much he loved you when he was with you. :(......take your time....take it slow, he'll be in and out of that relationship in no time.
2006-10-06 07:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by panflick 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just be patient. You wouldn't want to just settle for ANYONE, would you, simply because you feel "jealous" right now? What if he ends up like your ex?
So he's got a new girlfriend. BIG DEAL! She's probably just a rebound anyway if he's with her already.
Just as you can't force someone to love you, you cannot force something to happen when it's not meant to be. It could be that you're looking too hard. Relax, don't fret.
Things sometimes just happen when you least expect it. Take it easy;)
2006-10-06 07:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by ♫ Jemmy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down and stop LOOKING, the best things happen when you least expect them. I was a single mother and had been single for about 3 years and was not looking for anything or anyone, then I met this great guy, he proposed, I said yes and that was 27 years ago.... You should be happy for your ex maybe she'll turn out to be a living nightmare of a girlfriend.
2006-10-06 07:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all girl dont rush love because when and if you do you miss the opportunity to meet a really nice guy who is out here for you and if you dont take this advice i bet you will find some asshole and why would you want something you already have especially if they aint ****...my advice to you dont sweat the small stuff your time will come in the mean time just have fun go out with your girlfriends for a dinner or a movie even for a drink if you old enough and when you least expect it he WILL BE THERE YOU WILL SEE OK .......e
2006-10-06 07:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by ellie_m1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right man will come in due time. dont rush it or you will attract the wrong type of man. are you sure you are only jealous because he's found a girlfriend so quickly or is it something more? just asking. anywhoo, try not to focus on his life so much and focus more on yours. everything happens for a reason, maybe its not the right time for you just yet. take care
2006-10-06 07:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking. Just go out and have a good time. Show your ex that you don't need a man in your life to be happy. Then when you are least expecting it it will happen. I seriously think somethimes you can want something to much. Give it some time and get comfortable with yourself and it will happen. Good luck and God Bless!!!
2006-10-06 07:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why the rush girl?! enjoy your freedom for a minute at least!
theres nothing wrong with it~! I understand its hard... But you just have to keep your head up and smile!...
Like one of my favorite movie lines "Tell yourself youre single, and end the conversation" (WHile You Were SLeeping) Don't be like most single women and let being single bother you, or embaress you... I'd like to have it change from "im single, lonely, and nobody wants me" to "Im single, I'm fun, God has the perfect guy for me, but Im not ready because I haven't enjoyed being single yet" change your hair style (just because you can!), shop, work hard (but leave work at work), hang with the girls!, do something fun with your family, read what you want to read, travel to fun places, do whatever makes YOU happy... and a man will take notice of you, how happy you are, and how much you will bring to his life... the minute you stop looking, the right guy will find you!
SO like I said ... Tell yourself youre single, and honey, forget about IT!!! :)
2006-10-06 07:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Also, keep this in mind: If you have had a number of boyfriends and they don't work out, maybe you keep looking for the same kind of guy! Try looking for guys that have different personalities, different interests, and even different looks than the guys you have been dating. You might just find the man of your dreams.
But, again -- be patient. Oh, and don't be afraid to ask a guy out! Some of the best guys are scared to ask girls out, because of the fear of rejection!
Good Luck!!
2006-10-06 07:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is hard when your ex is has moved on and you are still single. But it won't stay that way. You'll find someone new--just give it time. It's good that you're looking. While you're single, however, take some time to appreciate yourself. The very best of luck to you!
2006-10-06 07:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by Avie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were obviously very easy to replace which means your value in his life was minimal. He, on the other hand, is not easily replaceable which explains why on weekends he's out getting laid and you're home alone eating ice cream right out of the tub and watching soap reruns. Poor thing.
2006-10-06 08:08:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easier for males to get involved because males will jump into a relation with amlost anybody without thinkin sometimes. But a female takes time to actually evaluate a man before getting involved and actually spending time with him...So Don't feel bad think of it as being smart and not wanting to waist your time on another failed relationship!
2006-10-06 07:56:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋