This guy that I have been have a passionate "friendly" relationship. We had gotten closer and I started to have deep true feelins for him. He intrigues me too. We can go on talkin g for hours if we wanted to, but instead i relax by massagin his back down ( bad back problems) and so he'll feel better ya know. Anyways he had explained that I was really good especially since I do it for at least an hour also. He said his back problems go away for a while when I do it. We have very deep pasionate sex thats totally hot. I wanted to get even closer but a while back he told me that he wasn't lookin for anything too serious yet, but some time has passed since then and we grew closer still at least I thought. So I asked yall if I should tell him how I felt or hold it back a lil longer. That I was scared that if I did till he would tuck tail and run.... Well I express myself self better in writing than tryin to come out and say it. It took me like 45 mins to type out free hand a 5 page letter.
2006-10-06 07:40:39 · 10 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I also enclosed a poem I had wrote. He has even gotten me writing again which I haven't done in like 5 or more years. We click on a deep level and so I let him know. And i haven't heard from him in like two days. Whats up with that guys. You don't even have the courage and say whats on your mind good/bad. Why do you beat around the bush so damn much. This is going to drive me nutts because of being so impatient here. Some advice please!!
2006-10-06 07:49:57 · update #1
Don't worry. I think it was OK to let him know how you feel. Since you haven't gotten a response from him, it's very likely that he doesn't feel the same way. But now the cards are on the table and you won't be wondering about how he feels and worrying that maybe you missed out on something. It sounds to me like you need to move on now. You fell for him, but he told you that he wasn't looking for anything serious. You need to take his word for that and start looking for a guy that returns your feelings. It won't be easy, but if he's not that into you, it's time to move on.
2006-10-07 06:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask a question, and get answers, then the responsibility rest with you to make the final decision. No one held a gun to your head and made you do something. You wanted to make a wise decision, and maybe for got to let us know pertinent things we can only advise you what we think and would do with the information given,Also if you were look for for permission to do some thing you were hesitant about doing then , you asked the wrong question. I do not know what the original question was but from the information you have just given, the answer is this guy is there just for the sex, and you want hin to commit to a lot more and it is not going to happen you gave away the store, and now you want him the buy the the wrapping. NOT going to work
2006-10-06 07:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's good that you told him how you feel but in a five page letter that's a little extreme but any ways give him time some guys just need a little thinking space maybe he likes you in the same way you like him. but he doesn't want to just come out and say it. let him think for a while. but, if he doesn't say anything in more than a week then you should go and talk to him but, don't go right in to that subject just talk to him a you normally would then ask him about it.
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2016-10-15 22:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him, but stress to him that this doesn't necessarily have to change your relationship. You two do sound really close though...perhaps he'll come around given some time and the knowledge that you'd like that...
2006-10-06 07:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Elminster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can read our advice , Then you have to decide if you think it's good or bad advice. We do not know you whole situation. Most people answering your question try to give you their honest opion, but whether you take the advice or not is up to you.--- Good Luck
2006-10-06 07:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say tell him. He won't give up a good a good thing with ya
2006-10-06 07:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by OTNEB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT DEPENDS ON WHAT TYPE OF PERSON HE IS, I WOULDN'T TELL HIM YET UNLESS HE IS SHOWING YOU TRUE AFFECTION BECAUSE YOU COULD BE RUNNING HIM AWAY I'VE DONE IT BEFORE AND IT DIDN'T TURN OUT NICE
2006-10-06 07:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by ke ke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn!!! i keep telling people not to listen to me!!! your bad girl!
2006-10-06 07:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO HIM!!! NOT TYPE!!! ANYBODY CAN TYPE HUNNY!!! EXPRESSIONS ON THE FACE NEED TO BE SEEN!!!
2006-10-06 07:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋