Do you ever hate your family?

Question

Sometimes I don't even want to call my family.

Answer 1

Anyone who says no will be lying. The only one I don't hate in my family is my father. Brother and sister have both tried to kill me numerous times, and my mother is just a cold hearted *****.

You know, you love your family because you have too, but if they weren't your family would you have anything to do with them? Hell no. Except for my father he is a GOOD person on the inside, the rest aren't.

It is a love hate relationship, you love them because they are your mother/father/sister/brother, but as a person, you really hate them

Answer 2

When I was younger, at times, I hated my family,(or should I say I THOUGHT I hated them.) I could never do things I wanted to do. Had to be in when the street lights went on. Gee, even when I was 21 yrs old I had to be in by 12:00 unless I had good reason to stay out longer. As I got older I realized my parents were only trying to protect me, and that they did. As far as my siblings went, always fighting and I really thought I hated them the most only to find out later I loved them with my whole heart. I am a very fortunate person, my family and I are so close even though some of us live far apart. Not only my immediate family but aunts, uncles, cousins. When we go on a vacation it is usually with around 48-50 relatives. It is absolutely heaven. We all try to help each other, love each other and try no to "Sweat the small stuff" God has blessed me with the most fantastic family ever. I wish I could give to others some of what I have. So don't worry if you THINK you hate them, in truth you probably LOVE them immensely.

Answer 3

There are times that I cannot stand my family, but I do not hate them. As the old saying goes "Blood is thicker than water." If you love your family very much, there's no need to hate them. There are some family members who cannot stand each other, but they still love one another. There are some particular family members that I do not like but I don't hate them.

Answer 4

No HATE is a strong word! We have had many arguments and disagree on a regular basis, but this is part of being and individual. You aren't going to always get along. I dislike family members at times, but I could never hate them, I am a part of them.

Hope all works out for you and your family(you only get one)!

:o)

Answer 5

Yes!But not hate HATE, like i'd hate them for doin' somethin bad to me that i will eventually get over ... U can't hate a family member unless they "themselvez"are bad ppl... but if ur askin iz it possible to live with ur family "normally" , then start hating them for "no reazon", thatz not possible, something must have happened that made u feel this way .. & 9 outa' 10 timez, problemz DO get solved, even if it took a long time .. & broken relationshipz "do" mend.

Answer 6

No I don't ever hate them but I understand were you are coming from. Somtimes your family makes you real mad that you don't want to be around them. I see no one else understands you but that's okay because every family has problems throught thier life time.

Answer 7

Hate is for an undeveloped mind, either too young or inexperienced. One has to have experience and to have learned that relationships are really complex. Can hate and love exist together? Not true hate. Yeah, you need to find a more suitable word that really describes feelings. My teen says that when she says she hates me she only means at that moment. But I say it is just anger and she must have an underlying feeling of fear or frustration and that's what she needs to identify. She really does love me.

It takes work.

Answer 8

I wouldn't say hate but DAMN THEY ARE F@CKING ANNOYING!!!! Sometime i can't stand be around them because they are soo nosey. I could write a book on my family and will probably make more money than Oprah and Bill Gates put together.

Answer 9

Believe me I understand what you are feelings. I have two sisters and they both make me sick. I am the oldest and they think i am supposed to be their savior. I have gone above and beyond the call of duty with both of them. one of my sisters was incarcerated for about 4 months and I helped her grandmother take care of her children. I even bought my nephews school clothes because he was staring kindergarten and her grandmother couldn't afford to do it and I allowed my younger sister to live with my family and me until she started disrespecting my children and making them feel uncomfortable in their own home. After wards both of them told family and friends that I never did anything to help them and that I was selfish. My younger sister was angry because I told her that she had to leave (she had two other houses that she could call home. My parents are separated and she could always go home to either of them). Needless to say I don't deal with either of those Heifers. And to those who say Blood is thicker than water, I say that water runs deep. I am closer to my two best friends than my sisters as a matter of fact I call them my sisters.

Answer 10

Yes i dont like my family a lot. And sometimes i regret saying it but for now i dont.