how many is too many ??

Question

how many previous partners would a prospective girlfriend or boyfriend had to have had in order to put u off ?

i know a girl who claims to have slept with 138 people and i wouldnt touch her with yours thanks

discuss

Answer 1

I dont think that sleeping with that many people is a problem, getting sh*gged by them , well that's a completely different story.

Answer 2

138 is a lot, I think. Do you think past sexual relationships make her a bad person? I think what matters is that in what circumstances she met all those men.
Could she be committed to you if you had a relationship, or would she be busy with other guys? My view is that it's normal and natural that couples practise sex, but a lasting relationship must be based on mutual trust, and in relationship both should also be worth that trust.

Sexual experience can also make relationship more satisfying. In my case, before marrying I have slept with 3 women, my wife has slept with 27 men. We have been married for 3 years, and the sex life has been great since the first time with her.

Answer 3

30

Answer 4

Yeah... I dunno, the real question is were they faithful during their time with their past partners? If she had two boyfriends at the same time and was sleeping with a couple other guys once in a while at the same time, THEN I'd be worried. Like they say, once a cheater, always a cheater. But then again, if she's had a lot of very short, very intenste but serious relationships, then that's more acceptable in my books. Point being, just because she's had more experience than you have, dosen't mean she's a tramp. But 138, man that's just sick.

Answer 5

Good luck getting an honest answer for this question out of a prospective girlfriend/boyfriend. I wouldn't be honest if asked, and I wouldn't ask because I would judge the person, not the past. Just because someone is horny and can't make commitments does not make them bad people. It might give them positive test results for STD's, but it does not make them bad people.

Answer 6

I have say that as a woman I agree with you and think 138 partners says a lot about that girl! Moderation is just as good.

Answer 7

somehow i never pull men with alot of experience.

i have slept with 13 men so far and most of the guys i have been with have had 5-10 sexual partners.

i did pull a guy that had slept with 52 women and it did put me off (it was also believeable coz he was really good looking).

my friends lisa and simon started having a race to see who could get to 30 first. simon won it but lisa doesnt go out every weekend any more. she got 24 simon is on 36. but gay men dont seem to care.

Answer 8

Sounds like shes very liberal from a sex point of view.

Technically the no of partners isn't an issue for me, although it is a turn off, its the fact that it implies she couldn't hold down a relationshp which is more worrying as a potential girlfriend.

Answer 9

Good question, and it could lead to some pretty good remarks.

Maybe if she had so many bed buddies, she's very experienced enough to show you a good time, or she totally sucks in bed, that's why she needed so many bed buddies.

If it were back in the 70's, that many wouldn't suprise me. ( That's probably why there were so many divorces from that era).

Anyways.................does it really matter if their STD free???

This girl you know that admits to her experience, maybe should tone it down a bit, but doubt she will. It maybe makes her feel GOOD about herself for all the bed jumping. She'll probably end up as a used up piece of **** and alone.

Answer 10

i wouldnt want u touch her with mine tnx lol, mines kept for 1 person only. (the love of my life)

and she only claims to have slept with that many people she maybe lieing.

and as for me on the amount of partners my b/f had previously had, well i dont think it would matter if you are in love with that person. just so long as they have practiced safe sex then theres nothing too much i think u need to worry about.

Answer 11

over 10